I was playing a friendly tourney. Guy wasn't a good shooter. Wouldn't even look for a shot most times let alone a run out. Basically all he kept doing was safe safe safe. So with 4 balls on the table playing 9 ball. I would just hand him the cue ball. Think he made one and played safe. Same thing. Handed him the cue ball. Made one and played safe. Balls are wide open now. So again I hand him the cue ball. Two balls to run out. Made one missed the 9. I could have gotten out of any of his lame safe. Just wanted to show him what I thought of his shooting ability. Couldn't even run two balls. Safes are fine. When needed. Don't play if you can't shoot though.
My brother in law plays like this when he's at my house. He's about an APA 4. Finally, I say, why do you do this. You have 3 balls, just shoot them and the game is over ??
His answer is if I miss, you win. Well, if you miss those 3 ducks, you should lose, not win. I really don't care either way, but I'm not playing him at 100% anyways. I don't play safe to give him a chance, I won't jump anything, and usually even bank the 8ball or any other ball I feel like banking at that particular moment.
So, I will take the impossible shot because it's also good practice to have to fire at the do or die shot once in awhile. But he wants to "win" not learn how to play, and that's the difference. Kind of like a pitcher that can throw, but he can't really pitch.
So, now I just play full out, and destroy him. He plays safe, I jump or kick it. I never give him ball in hand now. And I play safety when needed.
And I still tell him, what's the point if you can't play good enough lock up safety. (I'm talking about he has NO problem balls) Shoot the balls is the only way you will ever be able to beat me... but you let me come back to the table time and time again, that you diminish your chances greatly. And when he thinks he about to win, I just intentionally tie up his balls just for fun
He still thinks I'm "tricking" him so I can win

Oh, brother ??