Folks:
Unfortunately -- and I mean the SADLY version of unfortunately, considering what I'm hearing about the quality of the stream -- I didn't get the opportunity to watch any of the matches or any part of the stream itself. (Just lots going on on my side.)
With that said, it can safely be assumed that what I'm about to say, is coming from almost as neutral a party as they come -- someone who hasn't watched one lick of the stream, and is only familiar with Mr. Fels through his published work.
Folks that know me, know that I'm a big supporter of opinion. I feel every person has the ability and the right to form one, the right to express it, and the right to defend it. That is the foundation of a public forum, afterall. As long as an opinion is clearly expressed, with no obvious disrespect, it is what it is -- just an opinion.
I read through this thread, and I think part of what's being lost here, is what's "opinion" vs what's "taking things too personally" vs what's "revenge for the sake of revenge." I'm a root-cause-analysis type of guy, and I was interested in finding out how this thread went awry.
I do think I found the root cause, though. Let's dive in...
I have to say something. I'm not the kind of guy who can bite his lip for any length of time if I hear or read something I feel is out of line, and I have an opportunity to speak my mind regarding it.
I want to "counter comment" if you will, on what George Fels said at about the 57 minute mark of the Andy Walker - Bob Cozzolino match. I won't be pulling any punches here either, because it really struck a nerve hearing it.
Anyone interested can certainly play that back, but in essence he said pool players in general are uninteresting, come from poverty, and have poor grammar among other comments. SPECIFICALLY pointing out Jim Rempe and Danny D's poor grammar.
Well let me say that there are two sides to every coin, Danny and Jim certainly don't fall at the far end of that spectrum in either direction, by any stretch of the imagination. I don't feel that comment was in good taste.
This, so far, is a very tastefully executed opinion. Right up to this point, as I was reading
(unbiased, thus far -- I have no bias, because I didn't see the matches nor the stream, remember), it got me thinking.
"Hmm... this is a good opinion of a commentator's commentary. Sidenote for self: did George really say something like that? I wonder what the precept was, what prompted him to go down that road, what prompted him to open his vest and dip a hand of cards like that..."
I was eager to read on, because it was so matter-of-fact based. That is, until, I got to this:
At the other end of the spectrum, far closer to its extreme, I feel your holier than thou commentary was dry, false, and cliched so much it bordered on annoying. Speaking of grammar issues you reminded me of someone yourself...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LzAXb7qCCAo
So, you can slam me for my counter comment in defense of all mentioned and implied by George, but IMO it was out of line and uncalled for. Given the choice, I'd rather listen to 24hrs straight of either Jim's or Danny's commentary (grammar included) than suffer through 10 minutes of your cliched version.
Ouch. Ice-pick right in my eye, and in the eye of someone who had no vested interest or bias either way. I think this is the root cause of the ire in this thread. Not so much for the "Defenders of the Fels-faith" followers, but rather for the irascible finish to an otherwise well-written expression of an opinion. And it's a shame, too, because it started out merely as an "other side of the fence" expression of opinion -- these are many times a blast of fresh air. I sometimes find myself having little beefs with some of the things that commentators say or do, but I leverage my volume control if I find myself getting overly mired in a commentator's personal spiel or silly beliefs. If I'd heard George utter an unflattering knock against pool players in a stereotypical way, I wouldn't take personal issue with it, because I know it would never apply to me -- and I also know that if George met me, he'd feel the same way. Even if I *were* personally offended by what George said, I'd just adopt a "speak for yourself, George; you grew up like that, not me." Or, something like "that sounds like experience in classifying the company you keep, George." Or any of a number of come-backs like this.
Anyway, I'm thinking we're spending entirely too much time "defending sides" and lambasting each other. What's worse, is that the readers of this particular forum tend to take things much more personally than the other forums, especially really trivial stuff.
This is supposed to be the 14.1 forum, folks. Remember that "higher ground" thing? But yet a lot of us act like we have paper skin when something (or someone) that is considered "institution" is questioned. (That goes for both sides of the drama in this thread, btw.)
-Sean