What Do You Make Of This?
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This chick is awful flighty. I don't know if I would waste anymore time with this small talk and the run around she is giving ya. She talks to you all week getting you all excited then drops the ball on you when its go time. I think she is definetly seeing other guys at the moment and she is putting them before you. She is just waiting for a moment when she nothing else she can possibly do, to make plans with you and follow through. I think if she cancels on you again I would go with the asshole approach. You make the plans and if she can make them then screw her. Girls love assholes (they must because I see them with em all the time). And even if she does come through once, it doesn't make for the time and sleep you wasted. Probably just hit it and quit it no matter how much she wants to spend more time with you. I'm a nice guy, but I hate when chicks waste my time due to their insecuirities, can't make up their mind, flakyness, BS, and ect........
I think you were right by staying home that one night, besides if you can't reach them within 10 to 20 mins (especially if they were drunk, because they just pass out), they won't be in the mood anymore. Then you would of been really pissed and went to bed with blue balls because its my guess you haven't gotten it in a while thus being so excited and confused about the situation, you decided to ask for help on a pool forum. You need to get back in the game and no cue table layout isn't going to help your sorry ass.
-Kyle
I think you were right by staying home that one night, besides if you can't reach them within 10 to 20 mins (especially if they were drunk, because they just pass out), they won't be in the mood anymore. Then you would of been really pissed and went to bed with blue balls because its my guess you haven't gotten it in a while thus being so excited and confused about the situation, you decided to ask for help on a pool forum. You need to get back in the game and no cue table layout isn't going to help your sorry ass.
-Kyle
Hey Bval - you got me
I was reading the thread, laughing my a$$ off, & didn't notice until about page 3 that it was from 2007
Me too... Dam u BVal
Just a bump
Amazing reminder on how fast a few years fly by, seems like yesterday....
isnt it though....
about a year and a half ago this same gal invited me to come up again, this time to meet her one saturday night. i said ok, i would. then she backed out of that meeting, and that was pretty much strike three as far as i was concerned.
i txt msgd her a few times, to see if she'd like to hook up real quick. nothing ever happened here though. maybe i should email her again.....
DCP
Nice, DCP. Thanks for the update.
Sneak in the back door if you see it.
Sneak in the back door if you see it.
isnt it though....
about a year and a half ago this same gal invited me to come up again, this time to meet her one saturday night. i said ok, i would. then she backed out of that meeting, and that was pretty much strike three as far as i was concerned.
i txt msgd her a few times, to see if she'd like to hook up real quick. nothing ever happened here though. maybe i should email her again.....
DCP
I can't believe I'm answering this...
See, you finally got aggressive about it instead of playing it cool and you got the answer you needed. I don't blame you for laying low that first call, but the "I've got to go, my dinner's getting cold" line was really pretty stupid, and could have sealed the deal in her eyes. That translates to "my mashed potatoes are more important than you" in girl-speak. She may have decided at that moment to make a game out of you.
Anyway, all that game-playing got you just what you needed. Several weeks in purgatory. Might I suggest that you just put your cards on the table in the future? You will get the answers you need without all the bulls**t. And for God's sake, if you like someone, don't blow them off for something like your dinner!
Oh, and she was all about control. Some ladies like that game.
OK it saddens me greatly you did not get in your car. If she was mediocre in the right departments and it was passable than I get it, sleep wins. However if she was the least bit sexy and you have not gotten a piece of that you should be ashamed of yourself. Literally, you have to think about all the guys out there who can't score and do it for them. Do it for yourself. Hell do it for her. Next time for God's sake just do it(Think Nike). You'll probably never get a chance with that again. I know that I used to drive from Philly to Jersey or New York for the right booty call. You only had an hour drive and passed it up..if she is a 5.5 or better than you my friend screwed up. Unless you are all romantic and like dating and relationships and wanna be in love. She is not the girl for that trust me. She belongs on the hood of a car........
isnt it though....
about a year and a half ago this same gal invited me to come up again, this time to meet her one saturday night. i said ok, i would. then she backed out of that meeting, and that was pretty much strike three as far as i was concerned.
i txt msgd her a few times, to see if she'd like to hook up real quick. nothing ever happened here though. maybe i should email her again.....
DCP
C'mon, OCD. That doesn't sound like a "007" move. Get your tux on and start talking with a British accent.
Eric >shaken, not stirred
C'mon, OCD. That doesn't sound like a "007" move. Get your tux on and start talking with a British accent.
Eric >shaken, not stirred
what is OCD? i've been gone for 18 months, dont know what that is?
DCP
Hey Mikey, from now on, we'll refer to them as hood ornaments. We, on the other hand, are mailmen. Neither rain, nor snow, nor heat or ice. We'll deliver. And for all of you guys that stayed at home in this situation. You keep on doing it. I'll be right back, I just got a call from one of your girlfriends.
This thread makes me VERY glad to be married....Is this what the dating scene is really like?
BTW, DCP, you dogged it.
BTW, DCP, you dogged it.