Charlie might be doing a lot for pool, maybe more than any promoter, and that is great. But, for anyone to downplay what he did is ridiculous. If he has to resort to breaking into people's rooms to get any action then he needs to work on his game.
It's kind of like how a lot of people like Michael Jackson's music, but because he f*@#s little boys they generally don't care for him.
Nobody is (or ever has) downplayed this incident.
There are many people that were around Charlie and Marissa that weekend. Marissa, despite this incident had a pretty good time that weekend. I am sure that I have discussed this situation more with her than most people on this forum. There are a lot of reasons that Marissa did not go to the authorities, and she have discussed that.
All I am saying is that her decision not report this incident and have it investigated does not justify saying that Frank and everybody else were not there for her. That was not the case.
For those insinuating that I am not being understanding with Marissa, she would tell you otherwise.
Marissa,
You have to realize that Karim and Frank have nothing to do with what happened between you and Charlie. There was nothing either of them could have said or done that would have made that situation any better for you. Why bring either of them into this situation? You were probably removed from the venue because of these allegations. IMO, it was the right move. You may not agree with what Charlie did, but he created distance to avoid any further interaction or problems with you.
FTR, over the past 4 years (exactly 4 years to the day in fact), I have never discussed this situation with Frank, Cindy, Thorsten, Tony, or anybody else out of respect for your privacy. Why keep bringing this up publicly? It makes it very difficult for those of us that were there for you out of support, understanding, and friendship to have walk this fine line because of he said - she said. The truth is, none of us know what really happened. Publicly or privately, I have never seen Charlie act anything but professional and respectful. I'm not choosing sides, I'm just stating a fact based on my own experience around Charlie Williams.
I just think that there is a more positive approach to dealing with this than to keep it going on and on - bringing it up constantly in an attempt to facilitate entertainment value for these threads - and IMO, that is all this incident is being used for now. That's not right. JMO.