Your other life.

So cool all the things you all have been involved in. Lotta racing. Tell you what I got up to about 140mph once in a big Mercedes on the autobahn and the car felt like it was floating and I was scared to death. I held on for maybe 2-3 minutes before I had to ease off.
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I have drove 2500-3000 Kms in Germany fastest I got was 260KMS/hr sustained for aha seemed a long time, probably 20 minutes or more. there was 0 traffic, Christmas eve 2 years ago. This next summer I'm shipping one of my fast cars there to play with, I'd like to get 300Kms/hr. After a while you get used to it-then 100mph feels slow.


great thread again sir!!

best
eric
 
So cool all the things you all have been involved in. Lotta racing. Tell you what I got up to about 140mph once in a big Mercedes on the autobahn and the car felt like it was floating and I was scared to death. I held on for maybe 2-3 minutes before I had to ease off.

I am really impressed with anyone who was into racing, that's just crazy :-)

And a real life Moonie!! How cool is that?

Freddie, dude can you build me a couple robots for my sweatshop? The staff wants AC so it's time to automate.....


My brother and I were into racing from our teens on. First go-karts, then dirt bikes, drag racing, and finally SCCA sports car racing in Corvettes. I drove the back straightaway at the old Riverside raceway in an '"A Production" 'Vette (454 engine) and was clocked over 190. Pretty scary heading into the long banked turn nine and when you flatten out on the front straight your equilibrium is all messed up. Some guys drive straight into the wall!

I'll never forget one Trans-Am race where Parnelli Jones was driving a Camaro RS and following some guy in a 350GT Mustang. He couldn't get past him so when they got to the "esses" (a series of high speed S turns) Parnelli went straight through the dirt (never turning) at over 100 mph to pass him. No one else ever made that move!
 
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I have drove 2500-3000 Kms in Germany fastest I got was 260KMS/hr sustained for aha seemed a long time, probably 20 minutes or more. there was 0 traffic, Christmas eve 2 years ago. This next summer I'm shipping one of my fast cars there to play with, I'd like to get 300Kms/hr. After a while you get used to it-then 100mph feels slow.


great thread again sir!!

best
eric

You're so right. After you've been racing all day, then you get back on the freeway and 70 mph feels like a crawl.
 
Did the paper route in the mid 60's (that sucked) was a pin setter at 14 a local bowling alley for about 6 months, bunch of other meaningless jobs until moving to Pa in 75,married in 77. In 77 worked for a plastics factory where I served my apprenticeship for tool & die maker recieveing my Jouneymans certification in 82. In 91 after plastic factory closed went to a stamping/sheilding/Emi company working in the research & development shop, worked there until 2007 when they moved to Mexico. I now work for a industrial brush company in the product development area for the past 5 years looking for retirement in the next 4-7 years.
 
no real excitement, just different things to different people

many knew me as a pretty intense senior executive at a Fortune 500 company & most now know me as a pretty mellow retired guy who turned into a pool bum

zero overlap between the two groups
 
Props to the thread!

Thanks John for starting this thread. As others have stated, very refreshing to read about people's lives positively.

I haven't done anything earth shattering except married a wonderful woman and raised three kids - two in college and one still in middle school.

Graduated high school in 1980 - and that was a feat in itself as I was pretty "anti-establishement". Thank God for alternative high schools. Actually went on a few years later to college and graduated with an IT degree.

Left the computer science field and went onto the printed apparel business. Not really sure why! Anyway, been in the supply side of that biz for my career.

Just really started playing pool again a few years ago. Play on a league team just for fun. I think Fatboy described the tattoo parlor as a place where different worlds exist. The same is true of the pool hall; our team has a business owner, some of his employees, a guy who pierces for a living at a tat shop, a gulf war vet, guys in and out of jail due to various reasons (good guys making bad decisions). Very diverse group who all get along and play for a fun nite out.

I play a lot more and practice. Getting back into 14.1 - at least in practice. Pool is my stress relief; just me, the cloth, and the patterns. Maybe a B player at best; but pool like golf always has new plateaus as challenges! Great game! Great thread!
 
So cool all the things you all have been involved in. Lotta racing. Tell you what I got up to about 140mph once in a big Mercedes on the autobahn and the car felt like it was floating and I was scared to death. I held on for maybe 2-3 minutes before I had to ease off.

I am really impressed with anyone who was into racing, that's just crazy :-)

I've been just over 200mph on the bike. :eek:
 
Haha lucky you.

Its amazing to think how one person can change the path of your life in a split second. The guy that broke my legs wanted to hurt me, I'm sure of that but I don't think he wanted to end my career. He's now playing in the English Premier League, and probably earning £50k+ ( $100,000,000,000? ) lol. Go figure.

Who was it mate?
 
Great Thread JB.

My big thing was ski racing. I loved to ski and loved the speed of racing...until I fell in a downhill training run going about 70 mph ...man I thought I was never going to stop spinning and smacking into stuff. Luckily I only had a crushed disk in my back and a bunch of bruises and a concussion. I was paralyzed the next day but it was temporary and went away after the swelling subsided. Kept racing for a couple more years in college but couldn't shake the ghost and finally just focused on education.

Then I got a degree in computer science and a master's degree in a related field and worked as a computer programmer for a while. Moving up to upper middle management before being laid off as a result of 9-11. And I never went back. I tried to but just had crappy timing and for whatever reason couldn't get back in.

So I started playing a lot of golf and taking pictures. I always loved taking pictures and had a camera with me all the time growing up. Now I take pictures for a living and write software for a hobby. :) Money would be better the other way but life is better this way. I love finding beauty in the fabric of everyday life.

When I get to make art like this for my couples and get paid for it:
©StudioAlameda-156-M.jpg


Life is good.

~rc
 
Beautiful picture Six.
You're right, money is always good but quality of life trumps that any day.
As long as you have a roof over your head and food to eat, you don't require much more than that.

All those pictures you took for other people will be your lasting legacy and not a full bank account that you will leave to someone else.

Just a matter of where your priorities are at.
 
There seems to be a pattern here. What's the connection between various forms of racing and pool? I'm an economist, which is about as far from racing as can be.

I went to grad school at Northwestern, which eventually led me to Chris's Billiards, and the beginning of trying to get good at pool. I got up to fairly strong B speed about 5 years ago, but I'm slowly getting worse. Coincidentally (I'm sure), my second career as a father of two started about 5 years ago, too. I'm still trying to figure out what the connection might be.

Cory
 
Its Sunday, nothing else to do as it is my day of rest, so what the hell (posted on Monday).

I was a ward of the state until age 17. Means I lived in orphanages and foster homes most of my young life. I was a springboard diver as a teen and invited to try out for the Olympics but got sick. Joined the US Marines at 17 and was a photographer with many different exploits. During this time I was also a cliff diver. We would go to various bridges, cliffs, etc and stand there until we had the nerve to dive.

After the Marines I married a girl from Scotland and had three beautiful daughters. All three are great wives and mothers. Being their father is my most important accomplishment in my life. I quit cliff diving when my wife was pregnant with our first daughter who is now a university professor.

I was a professional photographer for about seven years, had my own business while attending college through a PhD in psychology. In addition I was a medical photographer at SUNY at Buffalo until I went to work as a photographer with a Nobel Laureate in neurophysiology.

My major area of expertise is forensic psychology. I have testified in court about 35 times, worked in every prison in Ohio (until they built some new ones), and have been what is today known as a profiler.
I taught and conducted research at Youngstown State University for 25 years where I had my own university lab and was recognized as a Distinguished Professor of Research. In addition, I wrote computerized psychometric software that was used all over the world and by many government agencies including the military services, NSA, and similar places.

I have written many scientific journal articles, published four books and manuals and was a writer for the late “Cues and News” Pool players newspaper in Youngstown, Ohio. I wrote and published over 30 commercial software packages for use in psychology and psychiatry. In addition, I had a private practice that specialized in behavior disorders and worked for many years with difficult cases, usually referred by the court.

In my personal life I have bought and completely re-done about ten homes for my family. We have had two “farms” and raised horses for about ten years.

I took up playing pool when I was about 45 years old. Now that I am retired I play about one hour a day. What I like best about the pool hall is I am just one of the guys and many of the people I find come from my side (the wrong side) of the tracks. I enjoyed reading about everyone else so it seems only fair to write mine though I usually don't.

My first wife died in 1992 and two weeks later she came into my study/ office to talk with me. I am an agnostic and a scientist. This after death experience completely changed my life and I have been studying death and dying since 1992.

Forgot to add I like oil painting (nudes usually) and sculpture (human heads). I am about to take up stained glass painting and looking forward to it and writing a book about loving intelligently. I toy with the idea about writing a book about the mental side of pool but never get around to it as most of it is on the net now.
 
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Its Sunday, nothing else to do as it is my day of rest, so what the hell (posted on Monday).

I was a ward of the state until age 17. Means I lived in orphanages and foster homes most of my young life. I was a springboard diver as a teen and invited to try out for the Olympics but got sick. Joined the US Marines at 17 and was a photographer with many different exploits. During this time I was also a cliff diver. We would go to various bridges, cliffs, etc and stand there until we had the nerve to dive.

After the Marines I married a girl from Scotland and had three beautiful daughters. All three are great wives and mothers. Being their father is my most important accomplishment in my life. I quit cliff diving when my wife was pregnant with our first daughter who is now a university professor.

I was a professional photographer for about seven years, had my own business while attending college through a PhD in psychology. In addition I was a medical photographer at SUNY at Buffalo until I went to work as a photographer with a Nobel Laureate in neurophysiology.

My major area of expertise is forensic psychology. I have testified in court about 35 times, worked in every prison in Ohio (until they built some new ones), and have been what is today known as a profiler.
I taught and conducted research at Youngstown State University for 25 years where I had my own university lab and was recognized as a Distinguished Professor of Research. In addition, I wrote computerized psychometric software that was used all over the world and by many government agencies including the military services, NSA, and similar places.

I have written many scientific journal articles, published four books and manuals and was a writer for the late “Cues and News” Pool players newspaper in Youngstown, Ohio. I wrote and published over 30 commercial software packages for use in psychology and psychiatry. In addition, I had a private practice that specialized in behavior disorders and worked for many years with difficult cases, usually referred by the court.

In my personal life I have bought and completely re-done about ten homes for my family. We have had two “farms” and raised horses for about ten years.

I took up playing pool when I was about 45 years old. Now that I am retired I play about one hour a day. What I like best about the pool hall is I am just one of the guys and many of the people I find come from my side (the wrong side) of the tracks.

My first wife died in 1992 and two weeks later she came into my study/ office to talk with me. I am an agnostic and a scientist. This after death experience completely changed my life and I have been studying death and dying since 1992.

You're an amazing guy Joe! From very tough beginnings you made a good life for yourself. Sounds like you made many good choices along the way.

That last thing you shared gave me chills. A few months after my brother died, I was riding in my car and there he was sitting next to me. He looked at and told me everything was okay. What's really weird is he came to my father that same night in a dream and told him the same thing. After that we handled his death much better. Thanks
 
Jay, I PMed Joe about this. After my brother had passed, his wife lost her wedding band. She was frantic. My brother came to her in a dream and told her where to find it. She found it in exactly the place he told her to look.

I truly believe that in many cases, a loved one is allowed one visit back before they go on their journey. Whether that is a physical visit or a dream.
 
About the same age

60s had a mess of part time jobs

70s out of the army in 72 mostly played pool full time. with a couple exceptions, late 72 built mainframes for ibm in boulder for a couple months.
74 managed a body shop for a few months. (earl schieb, i'll paint any car any one color for 19.95)
76 assisted distribution of a movie for a production company for a couple months.
78 worked custom cars show managing the celebrity talent around the country and cananda for a couple yrs.
80s around 81 or so was a welder for about a year then did some gunsmithing for a while.
84 worked with a production company out of movie tech studios assisting in the raising of capitol for films for a couple of years.
then back to playing a little.
90s i was district manager for electrolux for a year.
91 started making cues. (hope to finish one any day now)
95 worked 3rd shift in poolroom for about 12yrs.
2000s did a little pool and billiards streaming for a couple yrs.
now full time caregiver to my elderly folks.




kinda wondered what this might look like if i listed my life by the highlights. didn't seem like much at the time. sorta still doesn't.

M.C.


M.C.-

I too got out of the Army in the early 70's and took a couple years off and played bar pool.

That last underlined item is probably the most important item of the listing. That is tough and rewarding duty. Good on you. Several members have done/ or are doing this as parents age and need care.

re other jobs-I've had only two of consequence. Nuclear weapons warheads and caregiver. Two opposite sides of the end of life spectrum.

This is a good thread. Maybe we won't go full retard(thanks Justin) on each other in disagreeing on something if we know a little about each other behind the keyboard..........or not.;)

take care

Merry Christmas
 
I used to have another life. Years ago. It seems like forever ago sometimes.

There's an older gentleman who comes into the pool hall everyday. He sits by himself and drinks his beer. He doesn't say much, but talks to himself on occasion. I've caught him more than once in a conversation half-heard. It sounds like something he regrets but I never quite catch the words. He's there every night, 7:30 to the minute. Sometimes I think about the line from The Hustler, "He comes in here every night, 8 O'Clock on the dot." Most people don't want to play him, he says, because they don't like to lose. Back in the day we had billiards and snooker long before anyone had seen a 9' table. That's what he grew up playing. Now, approaching 75, I imagine most people don't think of him as a threat. Then they watch him play. Rick runs out about every other table. With his background playing straight-rail and 3C, trying to safe him is a nightmare. He doesn't jump, doesn't believe in it. He can kick at anything, and rarely misses.

Then there's me. I was a young executive. I traveled all over, lived in 10 countries before I was 30. Like Randal, I weight lifted for a while until I tore the muscles in my right shoulder and upper back. Combined with an automobile accident that had damaged my lower back, it was too much to continue. I had what I wanted though; a wife, a good job, a home, and a baby on the way. Played pool since I was old enough to see over the rail, actually, my father had a stool for me although I don't recall it. But early on, my wife gave me the ultimatum; her or pool. So, being a good husband I chose her. That's why I vanished from RSB.

A few years later, I came back to pool. No good job, no wife, a gravestone, and a rental condo. FL had, by this time, ruined RSB. People said I should join AZ instead, so I did but there were so many new faces I didn't feel like part of the group anymore. In truth, I still don't. This group is a little different from RSB. So I don't have a lot to contribute other than the pursuit of the mental game, and occasionally to review something, offer a tip where I can.

I wrote part of Transport Canada's manual on Human Factors in Aviation and wrote for some smaller billiard magazines. I have signed my name on an aircraft, assuming full responsibility for all 110M of its' worth and all of its passengers in October of 2001. I've worked with the FBI and NSA on some internet security related issues. I used to do a lot.

But in the end I think I'm going to become Rick, without the ability to run the table so well. I will always love pool as a sport, I will always strive to become better at it. Even when I was told I could not play anymore it was on my mind.

The short, fat, hairy, bearded Canadian with the sippy cup is me.
 

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Maybe we won't go full retard(thanks Justin) on each other in disagreeing on something if we know a little about each other behind the keyboard.

My exact sentiments as well 3 Rail.
 
Jay, I PMed Joe about this. After my brother had passed, his wife lost her wedding band. She was frantic. My brother came to her in a dream and told her where to find it. She found it in exactly the place he told her to look.

I truly believe that in many cases, a loved one is allowed one visit back before they go on their journey. Whether that is a physical visit or a dream.

Somewhere between 30 t0 40% of adults have an ADC (After Death Contact). Most do not talk about it because of our taboos. In my studies I have come to the following(unpublished conclusions).

1. Death is a doorway. Some people die and the changes are so gradual that they don't (at first) know they are dead.

2. You take everything you have ever done with you.

3. People come back because they have a reason to say something. Usually, "I am OK and everything is just fine."

4. I do not think it is restricted to one visit. I talked with my first wife several time for two years after she died. Now that is really weird so I won't talk about it here anymore.

5. We never get more than we can handle. Whatever it is, it is presented in such a way that we can deny it really happened.

6. I still don't know about the God thing. And I think that some of the dead people don't know about the God thing either. All seem to agree that there is some powerful force at work.

All this belongs in another place so I will shut up. But if you have and ADC pay attention to it. They are always "good" in my experience with many other people.

If you are interested in these things you can read about mine here

http://www.issc-taste.org/arc/dbo.cgi?set=expom&id=00038&ss=1

And about those choices Jay, as someone else said, I got lucky, way lucky.

OH, I just gotta add, I have found over the many years I have now been studying death that the numbers of coincidences are far too many. There is some sort of plan here. Jay's experiences, Blue's family experiences and my reluctance to talk about my self all came together in such a way that they may have benefited someone who simply needed a little push to see reality for what it is. I know, we need the theme music from the Twilight Zone here. :thumbup:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzlG28B-R8Y
 
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Jay's experiences, Blue's family experiences and my reluctance to talk about my self all came together in such a way that they may have benefited someone who simply needed a little push to see reality for what it is.

100% Joe and thank you for replying. Most people would call these things coincidences and pass them off just as that, where as they are what James Redfield calls Syncronisities.

Small things like the three posts coming together on perhaps a special day where the possibility lies that they were needed to help someone that reads them. Maybe we will find out, maybe not.

Hasn't anyone said something to you, perhaps in a grocery store, that you maybe passed off as a chance meeting. Later, you might think deeper on your chance conversation with a complete stranger and find the true meaning of why that particular meeting or conversation happened.

Sometimes just a few words of kindness toward a complete stranger may have impacted their life more than you know and was programmed to take place. I too will stop before it goes too far but will check the link you provided.
 
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