What makes sexy...
1. Confidence without arrogance
2. Self respect and respect of others (this can be exemplified in taking care of yourself including physically)
3. A good sense of humor, including at oneself and never in a mean spirited way at the expense of other's
4. Adventurous spirit
5. Dignity
6. Honesty
7. Healthy
8. Fearless but not insanely reckless
9. Intelligence
10. ok, a nice tush doesn't hurt either.
I agree to a certain extant but here is my comments and personal thoughts on each one by number:
1. Yes, confidence is good, but being humble is also very important. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, the line is so damn fine that in certain situations and depending on how the person views it. It can go either way. Some like extreme confidence they call arrogance, others like confidence but when they don't see traits of arrogance, so they just don't think you are confident at all. Yes, that ish is confusing.
2. I can agree with this, confidence but showing respect so you are not a pr!ck or an a$$h0le.
3. A good sense of humor, why do guys always have to be the comedians? The thing is, do the ladies have a good sense of humor? Mean spirited? well, give some sh!t, take some sh!t, it's all out of good fun. Sense of humor is different in everyone's eyes.
4. In and out of the bedroom, please ladies, you do the same lol
5. Well, in order to have a sense of humor, we all let go of out dignity sometimes, like the guys who dress up as women on Halloween, but does that count as confidence, adventurous, fearless? hmmm?
6. Yes, that is a must! Guys and girls both!
7. Healthy, well I agree here, but seeing girls with a few extra pounds, and some considered fat in my book call themselves average on a dating website kind of makes me think that they have the term healthy all F-ed up. YES! I am on dating websites :embarrassed2:
8. Fearless, adventurous, but not reckless, those are a bit conflicting in ways. I understand what you mean, but being reckless is fun sometimes
9. What is 1+1 again?
10. Like the sticker on my 442 says, you can look, but don't touch. For example, a girl kept staring at my chest at a bar a few weeks ago, so I called her out on it. "Why are you staring at my chest?" she says, "Oh! It's just so smooth, do you shave?" of course I laughed and say, "No, I don't shave, I'm naturally smooth, so stop starring before I start charging."
Chin0 - I had that exact same thought earlier - which is why I chimed in with a few names..
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Men! LOL!
:wink: I love WOMEN!