the hottest girl in pool!!!!

HOTTEST GIRL IN POOL:confused::confused:


Don't know, only applicants considered will arrive for the interview as is...no makeup, wigs, weaves, corsets, girdles, falsies, braziers, silicone, clothing and we won't partake in pre-interview mind altering drugs
 
No, understanding women and talking to them and getting to know them and who they are keeps them around for a lot longer.

The cash keeps the gold diggers around.

I mean, it's one thing to be chivalrous, but there is no law that says you need to be THE paycheck in todays world.
Forget that garbage.
If you are gonna go out and blow boatloads of money to try and impress a girl, your setting yourself up for a gold digging scenario.

Let the woman earn her own living, and respect her for doing that and don't be threatened by it, and you can sidestep the gold diggers.

There are plenty of women perfectly content to earn their keep so don't stick all women in the slot of just looking for a man to give them the high life when they are perfectly willing to work for it and earn it on their own.

the only difference between a gold digger and any woman is time and opportunity
 
I call BS...I've known too many girls.

Here's the breakdown...

What men look for in women:
Looks - 60%
Willingness to bump uglies - 30%
Other - 10%

What women look for in men:
Money/Power/Ability to influence other people - 50%
Physical attraction - 20%
How much OTHER women want the man in question - 20%
Personality/hygiene/whatever other random crap they claim to care about - 10%

Too bad you aren't a woman...so that you could experience your wrongness first-hand.

Money/Power/Influence - sounds like a salesman to me. I despise salesmen for the most part. Oh there are some nice ones out there...but they probably aren't great at selling.

Physical attraction - I don't dispute that looks can play a part. But more important to women is how a man looks at her...pays attention to her...makes her feel like a woman...a desirable woman.

How much other women want a man? Again...I am sure that there are a few shallow bimbos out there who consider that kind of thing...but in my experience...that's not really it. If a man is desirable...then it stands to reason that more than woman will desire him. That doesn't make him MORE desirable than he was in the first place.

Personality...it's huge. Go poll your female friends...if you have any with that misogynistic outlook. I'm not trying to rude...but if you think that little of women...then I would have a hard time believing you have a lot of meaningful relationships with them.

And finally...this was a playful post..and everyone else seemed to be aware of that.

Melissa
 
I should start a new show on a cable channel.

SUPERSTAR the girl whisperer.

Commercial: And on today's episode, we have a girl suffering from obsessive cleaning, generalized grumpy mood, and the occasional PMS rampage! Can SUPERSTAR get her to turn into a purring affectionate sweetie pie?!?! Or will she stab him with a steak knife and have to be tried for murder?

SUPERSTAR MILAN "When she is cleaning because of stress, and lashing out hormonally, providing that it's not agida, she is secretly telling you that she needs some undivided being spoiled rotten attention. A good foot massage with a nice neck rub while they are simultaneously eating a bowl of ice cream works miracles"

Tonight at 8pm followed at 9 by "The secret lives of Women"
 
Too bad you aren't a woman...so that you could experience your wrongness first-hand.

Money/Power/Influence - sounds like a salesman to me. I despise salesmen for the most part. Oh there are some nice ones out there...but they probably aren't great at selling.

Physical attraction - I don't dispute that looks can play a part. But more important to women is how a man looks at her...pays attention to her...makes her feel like a woman...a desirable woman.

How much other women want a man? Again...I am sure that there are a few shallow bimbos out there who consider that kind of thing...but in my experience...that's not really it. If a man is desirable...then it stands to reason that more than woman will desire him. That doesn't make him MORE desirable than he was in the first place.

Personality...it's huge. Go poll your female friends...if you have any with that misogynistic outlook. I'm not trying to rude...but if you think that little of women...then I would have a hard time believing you have a lot of meaningful relationships with them.

And finally...this was a playful post..and everyone else seemed to be aware of that.

Melissa

Oh lighten up...this whole thread is playful including my post. I just have to LOL every time I hear the personality argument. Every "personality guy" on the planet knows the fail in that strategy.

I'll skip the analysis so Jaden doesn't start a thread about me.
 
I should start a new show on a cable channel.

SUPERSTAR the girl whisperer.

Commercial: And on today's episode, we have a girl suffering from obsessive cleaning, generalized grumpy mood, and the occasional PMS rampage! Can SUPERSTAR get her to turn into a purring affectionate sweetie pie?!?! Or will she stab him with a steak knife and have to be tried for murder?

SUPERSTAR MILAN "When she is cleaning because of stress, and lashing out hormonally, providing that it's not agida, she is secretly telling you that she needs some undivided being spoiled rotten attention. A good foot massage with a nice neck rub while they are simultaneously eating a bowl of ice cream works miracles"

Tonight at 8pm followed at 9 by "The secret lives of Women"

LMAO!!!
And when I escape to the pool room, I'm secretly telling her that I don't want to deal with the hormones and I appreciate the cleaning.
 
Oh lighten up...this whole thread is playful including my post. I just have to LOL every time I hear the personality argument. Every "personality guy" on the planet knows the fail in that strategy.

I'll skip the analysis so Jaden doesn't start a thread about me.

if that ain't the truth it's never been spoken!!!!!!!

i know too many funny guys that can't couldn't get a number to save their lives!!!!!!!!
 
"I know he don't look good, but he's good to me"

Eddie Murphy


Hygene.... grooming, having something to say, courtesy, and clean finger nails goes a long way...

Nothing says sexy, like a woman with a job.


:cool:
 
Oh lighten up...this whole thread is playful including my post. I just have to LOL every time I hear the personality argument. Every "personality guy" on the planet knows the fail in that strategy.

I'll skip the analysis so Jaden doesn't start a thread about me.

Drew, I suspect you are under 25 or have spent all your free time in a poolroom with no chicks:wink:

Yes, looks are important, especially when you are young. However, looks fade - personality lasts a lifetime.

If you are wise, go for the latter.
 
Drew, I suspect you are under 25 or have spent all your free time in a poolroom with no chicks:wink:

Yes, looks are important, especially when you are young. However, looks fade - personality lasts a lifetime.

If you are wise, go for the latter.

Writing this made me feel old.. Back to topic, here are some female players from the Bugsy stable in the Philippines. Nice music!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cS7ZNByeS9o
 
world's funniest date

Many years ago my sister worked at a spa. She had started off as a bookkeeper and kind of slid in the back door but the basic requirement to be a sales girl there was looks, very good looks. I got to know most of the girls there and was a favorite chaperone when they wanted to go out dancing and partying. If a guy got a little too aggressive bringing him over to meet me worked wonders. :grin:

One of the girls was going to get married so they decided to have a bachelorette party for her, well actually go bar hopping and dancing the night before she was getting married. I got the usual invite so I was partying around town, the lone guy with not the usual two or three very pretty girls but seven of them! We had hit a few places and were chilling out for a little while at a club with a fireplace and comfortable seating around it when a more than slightly inebriated young man came up."Tell me, you got to tell me, how do you do it??"

Needless to say, I didn't enlighten him. :grin: :grin: :grin:

Hu
 
Too bad you aren't a woman...so that you could experience your wrongness first-hand.

Money/Power/Influence - sounds like a salesman to me. I despise salesmen for the most part. Oh there are some nice ones out there...but they probably aren't great at selling.

Physical attraction - I don't dispute that looks can play a part. But more important to women is how a man looks at her...pays attention to her...makes her feel like a woman...a desirable woman.

How much other women want a man? Again...I am sure that there are a few shallow bimbos out there who consider that kind of thing...but in my experience...that's not really it. If a man is desirable...then it stands to reason that more than woman will desire him. That doesn't make him MORE desirable than he was in the first place.

Personality...it's huge. Go poll your female friends...if you have any with that misogynistic outlook. I'm not trying to rude...but if you think that little of women...then I would have a hard time believing you have a lot of meaningful relationships with them.

And finally...this was a playful post..and everyone else seemed to be aware of that.

Melissa

Good post! For me, it's also about confidence. A confident man is very attractive.
 
A study about what women want.....

I found this on the net and feel it's pretty accurate. It is funny that a Man performed this study...go figure. :)

The top 6 things women want FROM MEN, in order, are:

1. Women want men who exhibit confidence (or power)

Women want a man to be confident! Confidence is the number one quality women look for. Don't be wimpy. Don't apologize for everything. Be real. Be you.

2. Women want men with a sense of humor (fun)

3. Women want men with money or the things money can buy (sense of security)

4. Women want men with looks (protection and attraction)

5. Women want men with a bit of "Bad boy" qualities (mysterious and independent/strong)

6. Women want all the other stuff they typically list (varies - sensitive, caring, etc.)

Women want loyal men. Women want to know you will be faithful. Don't tell a woman how you cheated on your ex. It won't make her think you are wise, loyal, or trustworthy. I'm not saying to lie to her -- just don't go there. Don't cheat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this. Just like you want think you are the only man she's ever loved, well, that's the thing she wants, too. The key to faithfulness comes from your own inner character. Be a man of character and you will reap a relationship built upon trust. You gain respect through consistent committed action. Respect backed up by love builds trust, trust builds a strong relationship that can stand the tests of life and time.


You can read more about it here (and trust me when I say..there is a LOT more and it's VERY interesting):

http://www.aspirenow.com/smooth_03_01_what_women_want.htm


Peace,
Amanda
 
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Charitableness. Not long after we met, my love volunteered with me for a homeless outreach project called Banquet on the Bridge <3

Here we are in the serving line...
 

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Here's a view of the bridge! We had hundreds come out for a hot meal and friendly conversation. He helped me scale a lightpost to get this shot.
 

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WOW someone is damaged goods holy man!

the only difference between a gold digger and any woman is time and opportunity


Ive had plenty of opportunities to be with men for money and turned them down because the man wasnt for me and I wouldnt fake enjoying his company for his cash. Ive made a great living for years and supported myself and my daughter with no help from anyone and certainly wouldnt need a man for his money. I want a man in my life for companionship, friendship and mutual love and trust. To laugh and create memories not buy them!

Ive never been attracted to money and I grew up without a nickle so maybe just maybe most women are the same way and the exception are the women you speak of.

Money is a sense of security and men and women both want some financial security but it is not number one on the list!!

Women are attracted to a man for so many other reasons and its simple. Women are not as complicated as most men think. If men were to think with their heart and emotions, they would likely understand what a woman really wants and needs. A hot looker is nice too but to a woman, when she gets to know a man and starts to feel attracted, he does become that hot man in her eyes. Women see men differently literally once she feels something for him.

its not so hard to understand if you let go of your baggage caused by someone else and be open to the good ones
 
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