No, understanding women and talking to them and getting to know them and who they are keeps them around for a lot longer.
The cash keeps the gold diggers around.
I mean, it's one thing to be chivalrous, but there is no law that says you need to be THE paycheck in todays world.
Forget that garbage.
If you are gonna go out and blow boatloads of money to try and impress a girl, your setting yourself up for a gold digging scenario.
Let the woman earn her own living, and respect her for doing that and don't be threatened by it, and you can sidestep the gold diggers.
There are plenty of women perfectly content to earn their keep so don't stick all women in the slot of just looking for a man to give them the high life when they are perfectly willing to work for it and earn it on their own.
the only difference between a gold digger and any woman is time and opportunity
If you say so.
I call BS...I've known too many girls.
Here's the breakdown...
What men look for in women:
Looks - 60%
Willingness to bump uglies - 30%
Other - 10%
What women look for in men:
Money/Power/Ability to influence other people - 50%
Physical attraction - 20%
How much OTHER women want the man in question - 20%
Personality/hygiene/whatever other random crap they claim to care about - 10%
Too bad you aren't a woman...so that you could experience your wrongness first-hand.
Money/Power/Influence - sounds like a salesman to me. I despise salesmen for the most part. Oh there are some nice ones out there...but they probably aren't great at selling.
Physical attraction - I don't dispute that looks can play a part. But more important to women is how a man looks at her...pays attention to her...makes her feel like a woman...a desirable woman.
How much other women want a man? Again...I am sure that there are a few shallow bimbos out there who consider that kind of thing...but in my experience...that's not really it. If a man is desirable...then it stands to reason that more than woman will desire him. That doesn't make him MORE desirable than he was in the first place.
Personality...it's huge. Go poll your female friends...if you have any with that misogynistic outlook. I'm not trying to rude...but if you think that little of women...then I would have a hard time believing you have a lot of meaningful relationships with them.
And finally...this was a playful post..and everyone else seemed to be aware of that.
Melissa
I should start a new show on a cable channel.
SUPERSTAR the girl whisperer.
Commercial: And on today's episode, we have a girl suffering from obsessive cleaning, generalized grumpy mood, and the occasional PMS rampage! Can SUPERSTAR get her to turn into a purring affectionate sweetie pie?!?! Or will she stab him with a steak knife and have to be tried for murder?
SUPERSTAR MILAN "When she is cleaning because of stress, and lashing out hormonally, providing that it's not agida, she is secretly telling you that she needs some undivided being spoiled rotten attention. A good foot massage with a nice neck rub while they are simultaneously eating a bowl of ice cream works miracles"
Tonight at 8pm followed at 9 by "The secret lives of Women"
Oh lighten up...this whole thread is playful including my post. I just have to LOL every time I hear the personality argument. Every "personality guy" on the planet knows the fail in that strategy.
I'll skip the analysis so Jaden doesn't start a thread about me.
Oh lighten up...this whole thread is playful including my post. I just have to LOL every time I hear the personality argument. Every "personality guy" on the planet knows the fail in that strategy.
I'll skip the analysis so Jaden doesn't start a thread about me.
Drew, I suspect you are under 25 or have spent all your free time in a poolroom with no chicks:wink:
Yes, looks are important, especially when you are young. However, looks fade - personality lasts a lifetime.
If you are wise, go for the latter.
If you say so.
What you don't know about women is A LOT.
Too bad you aren't a woman...so that you could experience your wrongness first-hand.
Money/Power/Influence - sounds like a salesman to me. I despise salesmen for the most part. Oh there are some nice ones out there...but they probably aren't great at selling.
Physical attraction - I don't dispute that looks can play a part. But more important to women is how a man looks at her...pays attention to her...makes her feel like a woman...a desirable woman.
How much other women want a man? Again...I am sure that there are a few shallow bimbos out there who consider that kind of thing...but in my experience...that's not really it. If a man is desirable...then it stands to reason that more than woman will desire him. That doesn't make him MORE desirable than he was in the first place.
Personality...it's huge. Go poll your female friends...if you have any with that misogynistic outlook. I'm not trying to rude...but if you think that little of women...then I would have a hard time believing you have a lot of meaningful relationships with them.
And finally...this was a playful post..and everyone else seemed to be aware of that.
Melissa
the only difference between a gold digger and any woman is time and opportunity