LOL I have not heard anyone say "Well Mr." since my mom stopped lecturing me as a child.....
As far as the pros making it to tournaments, people with and without memberships have donated to that cause. If it wasn't for people being able to post for free, I am sure that would not have happened to the level it has.
Regarding the rest of your points, I would be curious to know what % of the owner's money comes from memberships vs. banners and ad space they sell on the pages? Obviously that is where they make the most. I would assume the memberships are a nice little bonus, nothing more.
I am thankful for this site, and the work that has gone into it. That is why I have purchased lots of merchandise from companies advertising on here. I may buy something from the marketplace now that it is up. But I never have been concerned about the owners being able to pay their bills with or without my membership on the forums.
If for one second someone could tell me that the forums would go away without membership purchases, I would consider it. For those needing extra PM space, it makes sense. For those that do busniess on here regularly, it makes sense. For people like me who just want to talk about pool and maybe give a piece of our minds to someone that would never hear it outside of the internet, it is a personal choice, not an obligation.
Good for the owners for thinking of the concept, good for the people who have bought a membership. Maybe I will become a good person too, one day....