I can definitely understand why you would come to those assumptions but I will respectfully tell you that I'm actually the exact opposite of that![]()
OK, i know the solution now.. you need some tequila :thumbup:
I can definitely understand why you would come to those assumptions but I will respectfully tell you that I'm actually the exact opposite of that![]()
I read it, I understand you, and I disagree.
I'm sure you're and ok guy and you just needed to vent some. Everybody does. You just choose a very poor and inappropriate way to do it imo.
The way I see it you got 2 choices. Get some thicker skin and continue to play the game. Or quit.
But I know one thing for sure, if you continue to let these people get under your skin your game will continue to suffer. Playing angry is a waste of time and blaming everyone else for your problems isn't going to get you anywhere, even if you are right.
Good luck to you.
You have no problem with calling this guy a ***** for calling people out, but do you do the same with people that go around knocking people that play league? There's a very small group that does, but I don't recall you being one of them(but I could very well be wrong).
Let me recap what I'm hearing: People that talk crap about leaguers = okay. People that have a problem with them doing it = not okay.
If that's the case, then I'd definitely say a good old GFY is in order. I'd expect you not to cry or whine about that if you're thick-skinned.![]()
you are choosing to polarize this as a shot at azbilliards... Which is my fault because of the bad choice of a post title. This was a shot at the pool community in general. Azbilliards isa great resource and tool that I enjoy and will always enjoy...
My apologies to those who thought this was a shot at azbilliards
APA players whine and think they need a handicap to play anybody. Even if they can run a few racks, they still whine and need a spot. They really crack a smile and grin from ear to ear when they're presented with a patch for their prestigous pool jacket. OK, here is a patch for making a hanger when you had ball in hand.
They bring shot clocks with them for amature night, crying towels, jumbo containers of baby powder and car wax to buff up their new Cuetec.
They look for the guy that can't make even 1 ball and ask him if he'd like to play for $20
They prefer music at full volume and like to rest their beer on the cloth of the best table. Many of the APA players are experts at cue twirling too. Yes, a masterful skill indeed. I give them credit for taking showers and putting on clean clothes. The dart league is unlike the APA players and have many members that haven't bathed in weeks.
It's no secret how a K9 dog could track one when you realize just how ripe they really are.
Well, if playing top players is a fearful thing for you, maybe it's best you stay on the porch if you can't run with the big dogs.
Playing pool at the upper levels, even mid levels like a B player IS like work. But the fun to me is to play as perfectly as I can. I've never missed a shot and/or lost a match and went back to someplace with worse players and rules and equipment. I've seen people do that, even some so-called serious players. Room A I played in had large pockets, not a lot of good players, I learned to play there. Then me and a friend found out about Room B in Brighton, MA, tight pockets, great shape tables, tons of top players. We went there, and continued to go there, and we got better. The rest of the players in Room A went to the second room once, found out they could not make half the shots that the giant pockets took in their home room, saw players that would beat their skulls in without breaking a sweat and said "this is not for me" and never came back.
It's OK to take "whatever" you get given in the APA and bar tables and casual players, but not for everyone. To be top at anything, even in a local small fish pond, you need to have an attitude of "I'm good, I'm better than you, you better watch out when you tangle with me" or you just end up puking all over yourself if you have a 8 foot shot to make in a hill hill match for 1st place.
If I take a corner in my Toyota, I want it to be the best damn efficient corner every time even if I'm not in the Indy 500, if I work on a computer, I want to make sure that thing is running 10 times better than when I touched it even if I fix a dozen other things the owner did not even know were wrong. Same thing with most if not all of the top pool players, if they miss, they practice till they don't, or at least as best as they could. If they take a shot, they want it to be the best damn shot of that type ever hit on the planet. But some people are not like that, pool or other things are just pastimes. I don't think AZ ruined pool for you, you probably never really wanted to get serious about it to begin with, maybe get better at it, find out about better equipment, but not put in the effort do reach a higher level.
EDIT: Dear AZBilliards was admittedly a bad title for this post. As a resource, AZBilliards is amazing and I have nothing but good things to say. This post was meant to be directed to the pool community as a whole and not AZBilliards directly. My mistake
Thank you for ruining pool for me. Obviously this isn't meant for everyone in the community, but it is meant for a vast majority of you.
I started playing pool about 3 years ago. Joined an APA league and jumped in full force. It was fun. I met new people, I learned new things. I went out each week, had a couple beers and had some real fun.
But then, something weird happened. I found this site. It had a wealth of info...results, interviews...and then I found the forums. At first I was amazed...so many people discussing every single aspect of pool...from equipment to aiming to why pool isn't growing. I used to visit the site every day...trying to soak of info and tips and follow my favorite players.
I didn't know it then, but that was the downfall of pool for me. I started wanting to play better players...play on better equipment. At first it was awesome...but quickly things changed.
I started having "situations" with higher ranked players. They started telling me that I shouldn't be playing with them because I haven't "earned my time." Discouraging to say the least.
I kept reading the forums...reading the bashing of the league that I started in and still play in...the APA. I read so much that I, myself, started disliking the APA and all that they stand for. So I decided to leave it and play in the BCA...a local league here that was amongst the best ones in the area. I played...and I lost...a lot, but I didn't let that hold me back. I kept playing...I kept playing in higher ranked tournaments...I got slowly better.
The one thing I picked up from my time playing with the higher ranked players is the negativity. Nothing is ever right for them. They get mad cause lower ranked players get weight against them. They get mad cause lower ranked players pay lower entry fee's. They get mad because bars don't add money to their tournaments, or don't add enough money. In a word, entitlement.
I grew frustrated with the whole pool scene...started hating it. I didn't quit, but I didn't play very much at all. Then I realized that it all stopped being fun. So I went back to where pool was fun...and went back to playing in the APA and my friends...all of the sudden, I loved pool again.
There is a class system in pool. The APA is the lower class...the "99%" if you will. We are looked down upon because we play on inferior equipment with inferior rules for league operators who are in it for the money. Beer drinkers that play in bars with loud music and rowdy people. We play with handicaps because we aren't good enough for the "real" pool world. Meanwhile, the 1% are out there...playing on their diamond tables with their added money tournaments while they sip ice water and not support the rooms that add this money. It's entitlement at it's best.
"Pool players" feel like room and bar owners owe them the world. The nicest equipment with the nicest cloth. Massive amounts of added money and get rid of all the music and karaoke and people that make the room the money so they can play in quiet. Basically trying to get rid of players like me.
Please don't tell me or players like me that this isn't happening. I've experience this first hand here in Phoenix. I've been ridiculed for playing in the APA. I've been told by A players here in Phoenix that I shouldn't be playing them because I haven't earned my time like they have. Big time players like Scott Frost mocked me because they had to play me in a 9 ball tournament and made fun of me because "I had the gall to ask him to split quarters," for a tournament match.
Hell, I've even been turned away from a tournament because I'm not good enough. And when I do get to play, it's very uncomfortable. The higher rated players make me feel like it's a priviledge to play them. I shouldn't feel this way...but that's what you do.
In a nutshell, get over yourself. You can have your game...because that's all it is...a game. Or have you forgotten that? I will stick with the league that is ruining pool...even though it brings more and more people into it each year. I will stick with the inferior equipment and inferior rules and the loud music and beer drinking because I love where I play and want to support them as much as I can.
I want to go back to a place where the only complaining I hear about is the guys complaining that the wife barely let them come out to play tonight, not some entitled douche bags discussing the ins and outs of their $30 chalk or how this room sucks cause it has Valley's.
GFY...Yes I'm bitter, you ruined the game for me and a lot of others out there, but I'm going back to where it's fun...and will continue to teach my kids my horrible stroke and pool knowledge so they can have fun with this wonderful game. But I will never teach them to become a "pool player" because I don't really wish that on anyone anymore.
tl;dr - Pool used to be fun, I got serious like everyone here said I should and hated it. I'm going back to the APA.
1st The ONLY thing I called him was a hypocrite so I dont have a clue what you are talking about. (please correct me if I am wrong)
And I don't get what you are saying here---> "but do you do the same with people that go around knocking people that play league? There's a very small group that does, but I don't recall you being one of them(but I could very well be wrong).
And as for this ---> "Let me recap what I'm hearing: People that talk crap about leaguers = okay. People that have a problem with them doing it = not okay." My response is that anyone who lumps everyone into 1 category is asking for trouble. If you have a specific problem with a single person deal with it on that level, don't say "everyone is picking on me" be specific.
And just for the record, he came here and started this post I didn't go looking to single him out. And I don't give a crap what you expect me to do, if you don't like what I have had to say so be it. He came here with a crappy attitude and I think what he wrote was way out of line. This guy wants respect from the people he told to go F*&% themselves, and has the balls to talk about entitlement.
I live in Rhode Island and there are a lot of Open/A players and even a few pro's that play in the poolroom where I play(Snookers). I have had the exact opposite experience. A lot of these players including the pros are always willing to help and answer questions when not in matches etc. And if they are not gambling they will even play and practice with me for free. Mind you I am a lowly C- level player and they don't care or laugh when I screw up. It sounds like you are making generalizations about pool players everywhere based on your experiences from your state/area only. I don't think it is fair to say all pro's are jerks because they are jerks in Phoenix. Mike Dechaine and Tom "Shorty" D' Alfonso are two regulars and pro's who play at Snookers and I would call them both friends with Shorty being a good friend. We met and became friends from playing/taking about pool. They don't care that I am a lowly C level player but do care about helping me improve my game. I guess I am glad I don't live in Phoenix because I can see how what you have experienced can be frustrating. Keep your head up and stay positive because you are right it is only a game and most of us will only be average players.
EDIT: Dear AZBilliards was admittedly a bad title for this post. As a resource, AZBilliards is amazing and I have nothing but good things to say. This post was meant to be directed to the pool community as a whole and not AZBilliards directly. My mistake
Thank you for ruining pool for me. Obviously this isn't meant for everyone in the community, but it is meant for a vast majority of you.
I started playing pool about 3 years ago. Joined an APA league and jumped in full force. It was fun. I met new people, I learned new things. I went out each week, had a couple beers and had some real fun.
But then, something weird happened. I found this site. It had a wealth of info...results, interviews...and then I found the forums. At first I was amazed...so many people discussing every single aspect of pool...from equipment to aiming to why pool isn't growing. I used to visit the site every day...trying to soak of info and tips and follow my favorite players.
I didn't know it then, but that was the downfall of pool for me. I started wanting to play better players...play on better equipment. At first it was awesome...but quickly things changed.
I started having "situations" with higher ranked players. They started telling me that I shouldn't be playing with them because I haven't "earned my time." Discouraging to say the least.
I kept reading the forums...reading the bashing of the league that I started in and still play in...the APA. I read so much that I, myself, started disliking the APA and all that they stand for. So I decided to leave it and play in the BCA...a local league here that was amongst the best ones in the area. I played...and I lost...a lot, but I didn't let that hold me back. I kept playing...I kept playing in higher ranked tournaments...I got slowly better.
The one thing I picked up from my time playing with the higher ranked players is the negativity. Nothing is ever right for them. They get mad cause lower ranked players get weight against them. They get mad cause lower ranked players pay lower entry fee's. They get mad because bars don't add money to their tournaments, or don't add enough money. In a word, entitlement.
I grew frustrated with the whole pool scene...started hating it. I didn't quit, but I didn't play very much at all. Then I realized that it all stopped being fun. So I went back to where pool was fun...and went back to playing in the APA and my friends...all of the sudden, I loved pool again.
There is a class system in pool. The APA is the lower class...the "99%" if you will. We are looked down upon because we play on inferior equipment with inferior rules for league operators who are in it for the money. Beer drinkers that play in bars with loud music and rowdy people. We play with handicaps because we aren't good enough for the "real" pool world. Meanwhile, the 1% are out there...playing on their diamond tables with their added money tournaments while they sip ice water and not support the rooms that add this money. It's entitlement at it's best.
"Pool players" feel like room and bar owners owe them the world. The nicest equipment with the nicest cloth. Massive amounts of added money and get rid of all the music and karaoke and people that make the room the money so they can play in quiet. Basically trying to get rid of players like me.
Please don't tell me or players like me that this isn't happening. I've experience this first hand here in Phoenix. I've been ridiculed for playing in the APA. I've been told by A players here in Phoenix that I shouldn't be playing them because I haven't earned my time like they have. Big time players like Scott Frost mocked me because they had to play me in a 9 ball tournament and made fun of me because "I had the gall to ask him to split quarters," for a tournament match.
Hell, I've even been turned away from a tournament because I'm not good enough. And when I do get to play, it's very uncomfortable. The higher rated players make me feel like it's a priviledge to play them. I shouldn't feel this way...but that's what you do.
In a nutshell, get over yourself. You can have your game...because that's all it is...a game. Or have you forgotten that? I will stick with the league that is ruining pool...even though it brings more and more people into it each year. I will stick with the inferior equipment and inferior rules and the loud music and beer drinking because I love where I play and want to support them as much as I can.
I want to go back to a place where the only complaining I hear about is the guys complaining that the wife barely let them come out to play tonight, not some entitled douche bags discussing the ins and outs of their $30 chalk or how this room sucks cause it has Valley's.
GFY...Yes I'm bitter, you ruined the game for me and a lot of others out there, but I'm going back to where it's fun...and will continue to teach my kids my horrible stroke and pool knowledge so they can have fun with this wonderful game. But I will never teach them to become a "pool player" because I don't really wish that on anyone anymore.
tl;dr - Pool used to be fun, I got serious like everyone here said I should and hated it. I'm going back to the APA.
He was speaking to a specific part of AZB and I understood that. Perhaps we did not recognize where the different parties were coming from. There are quite a few people on AZB that are constant league bashers, while very few have balls to say anything to the contrary. Or, worse yet, only have the nerve to say something to those that have a problem with the league bashers. Sometimes you have to stand up and tell people to GFT for them to understand. Maybe he should've posted a "I'm sick and tired and I'm not going to take it any more" thread? Screw it, like I said.. sometimes a good old-fashioned GFY is needed. To me, it's more akin to the idiots in Crapsville that complain about the crime, but do nothing about it.. now somebody's saying something and everybody's jumping all over his ass.
I get that, and I can sympathize. I do not feel that what he wrote spoke to a specific part of azbilliards of the pool community, he did a poor job of explaining himself.
If you look back through my posts in my time here you will see that on more than one occasion I have stood up for APA players, (even though I am not one myself). And I have came down on people who rag on folks that play APA and consider themselves holier than thou. So I take it personal when someone comes on here who hasn't contributed to this forum at all and makes a blanket statement about us as a group. And at no time did he make it clear that he was speaking to only those that bash the APA. The post was addressed to the entire community and that is exactly how I took it in the beginning.
Yes, sadly players with your mindset are taking over htis site as well. Soon there will be no trace of "real pool".
APA is a scourge on an otherwise beautiful game.
Being sub-par is not an achievement