Your story reminds me of a time at least 20 years ago. I was taken out of retirement by a friend who could not beat a guy who won every tourney at a small bar in the high country near where I live.Always interesting to see what comes out when a usual winner is losing. Easy to be a gracious winner with surface plock without having to dig into yourself. When you lose and can still retain that class, that shows some real class. I had an awful pistol match, dropped the most points I had that season. A young man came running up after the match, very excited. "I have been trying to beat your score all season and I have finally done it!" He was beaming, grinning ear to ear! It would have been easy to point out my uncharacteristic score but instead I didn't mention my score, I congratulated him on achieving his goal. I don't quite qualify for sainthood though, I couldn't resist saying, "now do it again!"
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My buddy said "Jimbo, why don't you get in this weekly into this tourney and take this hot shot down."
I packed my rusty gear and started playing again. It was so much fun albeit a small event with C-B minus players. I won that night and took home $150.
I continued to play in that weekly event for the next year winning most of the tournys but I would re-tip the their cues for free and any other things that they needed on their cues. I made a lot of friends and still hang with many of these guys.
It was the way I handled the situation that made the difference.
Sadly that bar changed hands and got rid of their tables and it is just a fond memory now.
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