there was a thread on here long ago I cant find it.. but it was suggested that you record your next 100 misses as in ..... I left myself a little steep and had a hard cut near the rail...
he played safe and I had to attempt a two rail kick and I fouled.... ect...
and you do this 100 times then you read that book looking for themes and that's what you need to focus on at practice..
and if you don't practice... you will get squashed by everyone who does.. or did..
for most quality pool players there is a period of 5+YEARS where they were at a table cue in hand every day... mostly alone, figuring it out
and if you haven't done that, that's why you are losing to the quality players..
no one in the history of the game was instantly great.. it takes work but it is achievable
every single pool player is as good as they were willing to get..
You said a mouthful there! (Saying a keyboard full just doesn't sound the same.) After I was winning most of the time I put in five to six thousand hours in two to three years working on cue ball control. Joe Villalpando's first two DVD's could probably knock 75% or more off of that time, they are that good!
My opinion, pocketing the ball is usually the easy part of the shot. The hard part is getting the cue ball where you want it. If you shoot for spot shape and you are a little bit off you are usually still OK, if you play for area shape and you are a little off you are usually screwed. Learning spot shape was tough, very tough. It almost gave me a license to steal for close to ten years though.
Talking directly to the OP now, if you get to play a monster a couple times a month that is plenty. Play people a step or two better than you about equal parts with playing people not quite your speed. All that losing all of the time can teach you is how to be a good loser. You will get enough practice losing without going out of your way to lose.
We have more youtube pool and snooker than we can ever watch. Watch instructional video you are interested in but also watch pro matches. Even Shane makes mistakes sometimes. Learn how to use the video controls to back up and forward to get to what you want to see. Today's players, or those of a few years ago to be more accurate, were too stuck on draw. They would draw three or four rails in traffic when one rail and little or no traffic was available. They were so used to draw that they were always choosing a draw shot without considering other options.
Along with spot shape, moving the cue ball as little as possible is super strong. The bad news, the recent MatchRoom event showed that the top players have cleaned up their games a lot. Steel hones steel and they have had to kick their games up a level or two in the last few years. The things that would have let you make a significant jump, now you are going to have to master to just stay even. Reminds me, like it or not, I don't, the jump cue is here to stay in most gambling and local events. Get one and learn to use it.
About all I have at the moment. Hopefully you at least take away don't play people you can't beat all the time. All it takes to be a gracious winner is practice. That is all it takes to be a good loser too. I prefer to practice being a good winner. At the least your winnings should pay for your losses and lessons or very close to it.
The old you have to gamble with better players to learn idea was put forward by gamblers, a way to get into people's pockets, a lot like calling anybody who won't get in a bad game a nit. When they won't take a bad game they are smart handicappers. When you won't take a bad game, you are a nit! Reminds me of a final thought. If you have played and lost to a better player a few times don't be bashful about asking for a spot. The worst that can happen is you can be told no.
Hu