I am only 24 yet I feel back in January that my pool career suffered a mid life crisis. I was playing with a lot of different pros and road players in Georgia. All of them were living harsh. The pros that had families hardly ever got to spend time with them cause they have to travel to all the tournies and play in em to pay the bills. The road players are hollow, given up their best relationships, hardly have a bankroll to brag about unless their doing really good. I love this game and I wanted to be the best in the world. Even being the best you live tough though. So I was having problems being motivated to play once I realized this. So I reorganized my priorities from pool, work, college, relationships to wife, job, college, then pool. Now I still put alot of hours on the table right now but when college classes are going, thats first. If my wife wants to spend time with me thats really first. Pool has taken its proper role in my life.
Reorganizing my priorities was the best thing I ever did. I was honest with myself and now I'm a much happier, focused, determined player. If it takes another 10-20 years to play pro pool I am ok with that. Cause when it happens I want be the one living off of the winnings, Ill be the one who has a career outside of pool and be more focused to win. This really takes the money out of it and Im just there to play pool and win beating the best, and thats all I ever wanted.
Hope this helps, I'm much happier