Bad transaction report? When to give one?

boston.mike said:
hehe this is kind of fun. lots of interesting posts. everyones seems split 50/50 or they are talking about something completely different. hehe

I don't think it's anywhere near 50/50! Furthermore, if you were a "good" seller you would stand by your product and would make it right!
 
Yeah, when you sell something you have to offer satisfaction guaranteed or money back, period.

I've sold a cue to a fellow AZ'er who wasn't happy with it. I immediately refunded their money before receiving the cue back. I wouldn't always do this, but it was a special case. They didn't know me from Adam and thought I was trying to rip them off at first (this was a while ago) but were pleasantly surprised with the quick refund...and then they decided they could use it for parts and offered me a price we both agreed upon and everyone was happy.

I sell a lot of stuff on ebay (mostly very expensive) and always offer a satisfaction guarantee. I don't spend the money from the transaction until I get the word that the customer is happy. You never have any problems this way.
 
Matt_24 said:
I've sold a cue to a fellow AZ'er who wasn't happy with it. I immediately refunded their money before receiving the cue back.

Actually, you refunded my money in full and told me to keep the cue as a gift. I felt bad because I blew a gasket on you and we split the deal.

And that's exactly why I consider you a respected friend today, Matt. Not many people have your character or charisma. You're a rare individual.

Chris

Ps. I can't give you more rep just yet, but maybe some friends will for posting this.
 
boston.mike said:
i as well, i have a 100% ebay feedbakc rating. thats you and not me. it wasnt that i am not a peson to offer help fixing a situation, its how the buyer dealt with me initially. it wasnt nice. instead of asking me and finding out what happend, he accused me i knew of the issued and didnt say anything and still sold it. business is business and there needs to be respect in business. if he respected the fact i honestly made a mistake and sold this to fast and i didnt see the blemishes. i would have helped. but he didnt repsect me, or my mistake, and accused me of lying. so that gets no repsect bakc from me. he can contac me and we might be able to still work somehting out but i am not fully funding this getting fixed based on his disrespect. sorry.

From George's post you sent the following e-mail:

George said:
I then received this email:
5/2/2006 11:28:48 A.M. Eastern Standard Time

"hello, i am not sure waht happend to the other email but i am sorry about yor cue. it was an honest miss. i dont use it. i know this doesnt involve you butt you know <deleted repected AZers handle> right? on az. i bout a new cue and he said it was just slightly used i get it and theres a chip in the collar! i emailed he said he was sorry he didnt see it if he did he would have told me. i let it slide cause i got a huge discount so i cant really complain, i did buy a "used cue". and as far as mint, the shaft has maybe hit less than 2 weeks worth so i believ it is mint its practically brand new and 100% functional. now i know there a few cosmetic things the dent, i dont think anything can be done, as far as the wrap, i know sledgehammer have a lifetime warranty. i sure it can be fixed? let me know"

In the bolded sentence you said that you know that there were cosmetic issues with the cue. It wasn't until after this that he said you knew it had problems, which you admitted just previous. It sounds like you're making excuses.
 
Let me Edit slightly

alstl said:
Whoa, I was on your side until you said that. I've been in your place a few times, bought a great cue from you (Schon) and I never stole a thing. In fact I bought a couple cubes of chalk at your place once for a buck apiece to hold me over until I could order a box on the internet (I like to use my own chalk). The only time I played for free was when I bought the Schon and was offered free table time for that day.

As far as the rest of your post, I would agree. I recently sold a falcon/314 to a guy in person and I probably could have got a little more money for it on this site or e-bay but I've seen too many people make a big deal out of seemingly minor problems.

Al,
St Louis
I should have said " most regular pool players that come into my billiard parlor on a regular basis have stolen from me" Not to mean every single person who has walked in the door. Sorry, when you have to monitor the public like a prison yard you sometimes get a strange perspective on people you see every day. Sorry about the exaggeration. When people get "comfortable" in a billiard parlor and feel at home, they have a tendency to think they "deserve" freebies. They feel like I owe them some free practice time, some free chalk, grab a candy bar and slip in in their pocket, grab a soda out of the cooler, free beef jerky, handfull of nickel candies, half off coupons, etc. Its just a case of the more you give someone the more they expect. That is why I overlook most of this stealing. . And most people will deny that it is stealing at all. Their first response is.."All the money I spent in here today and you're gonna charge me for a candy bar?"
You can substitute any number of items for "candy bar". My biggest complaint is when someone shoots one game of pool and expects it to be free. They always state it was "only one game"..you know...since no pool hall charges you for the first game. Our written policy is to charge a $2 minimum for your first shot. We figure if you don't have $2 to your name, you should probably not be there. (no we do not always enforce this with regulars)

Hmmm, I also wonder who sold you the chalk for $1 a piece. We only charge .25 cents for chalk. I will have to give them a high five (being sarcastic).

Use our online coupon for half off pool Al and come back and see us.
 
cueandcushion said:
I should have said " most regular pool players that come into my billiard parlor on a regular basis have stolen from me" Not to mean every single person who has walked in the door. Sorry, when you have to monitor the public like a prison yard you sometimes get a strange perspective on people you see every day. Sorry about the exaggeration. When people get "comfortable" in a billiard parlor and feel at home, they have a tendency to think they "deserve" freebies. They feel like I owe them some free practice time, some free chalk, grab a candy bar and slip in in their pocket, grab a soda out of the cooler, free beef jerky, handfull of nickel candies, half off coupons, etc. Its just a case of the more you give someone the more they expect. That is why I overlook most of this stealing. . And most people will deny that it is stealing at all. Their first response is.."All the money I spent in here today and you're gonna charge me for a candy bar?"
You can substitute any number of items for "candy bar". My biggest complaint is when someone shoots one game of pool and expects it to be free. They always state it was "only one game"..you know...since no pool hall charges you for the first game. Our written policy is to charge a $2 minimum for your first shot. We figure if you don't have $2 to your name, you should probably not be there. (no we do not always enforce this with regulars)

Hmmm, I also wonder who sold you the chalk for $1 a piece. We only charge .25 cents for chalk. I will have to give them a high five (being sarcastic).

Use our online coupon for half off pool Al and come back and see us.

I think it was Chris. Now we have gone from me stealing from you to you admitting I was overcharged. Interesting.
 
Need a break...from posting..from work..from life.

I shouldnt post when I have horrible days at work. I type too fast without thinking. Time to be a lurker for a while again until stress subsides.

Maybe the brain will work better after a rest...

Will offend less people that way.
 
boston.mike said:
see someone see my point, rackem is right you got a great deal on a great cue. roll with the punch. i may have dealt with you if you hadn't been an ass. you accused me of what i knew and did not know. who do you think you are? i honestly did not see it, i didnt use it much, i tried it didnt like it so i sold it. sorry about the small imperfection, but i would have helped you if you were more calm in the beginning, also i really dd send you emails when i said i did, there was a 2 day pause in our communication cause i was waiting to hear from you and you were waiting to hear from me. i was not ingoring you. i am a perfect sller and buyer. i have never had a bad feedback and well this seems to be the first. sorry to all who were subject to read this. if i ever happen to sell anything here again, i will do it securely. thanks all anywuestions please pm me. but i doubt anyone will care about this. thanks

YO....did you score 17k under a table up there?????

PS...tks for your post...you eliminated any doubts any of us might have had:rolleyes:
 
boston.mike said:
you can read but youdont seem to uderstand it, read it again. i said that after he told me what was wrong. thus i reply, i know there a re a few cosmetic issues,.....
then comes that big important word, BUT. i said i know cause he just told me. its like being retoric.

Well, I went back and re-read it and could not find the word "but" in there anywhere...lol. The only reason I posted was because your rationalizations were flawed and I felt the desire to point out what someone with principles would do.

I do have to say, however, that your sentence is so poorly worded it takes a bit of deciphering. Due to this it is entirely possible that he misunderstood your meaning and thought, as I did, that you were admitting to knowing the defects were there.

Finally, if someone damaging your fragile sensibilities is enough to disuade you from doing the "right" thing then I guess that speaks to your true character.
 
I was going to respond to some of these posts but you know what they say: "if you give someone enough rope"

I think you all get the picture now.

George
 
George said:
I was going to respond to some of these posts but you know what they say: "if you give someone enough rope"

I think you all get the picture now.

George


YEA...and its not pretty:eek:
 
boston.mike said:
see someone see my point, rackem is right you got a great deal on a great cue. roll with the punch. i may have dealt with you if you hadn't been an ass. you accused me of what i knew and did not know. who do you think you are? i honestly did not see it, i didnt use it much, i tried it didnt like it so i sold it. sorry about the small imperfection, but i would have helped you if you were more calm in the beginning, also i really dd send you emails when i said i did, there was a 2 day pause in our communication cause i was waiting to hear from you and you were waiting to hear from me. i was not ingoring you. i am a perfect sller and buyer. i have never had a bad feedback and well this seems to be the first. sorry to all who were subject to read this. if i ever happen to sell anything here again, i will do it securely. thanks all anywuestions please pm me. but i doubt anyone will care about this. thanks

1) Your opinion of whether or not this was still a good deal is irrelevant and unimportant. What is important is whether or not you honored your end of this deal by delivering what you said you would. You sold the cue as mint, and mint means "as new, without any defects or signs of use." The cue is CLEARLY NOT mint, and is clearly not what the buyer bid on and paid for.
2) His being an "ass" (in your words and opinion) has nothing to do with whether or not you honored your end of the deal and delivered what you said you would. It also has nothing to do with your need to make the deal right when you made such a large mistake in the way you represented the item. It does, however, give you the right to choose not to do FUTURE business transactions with him if you do not like the way he interacted with you on this one. For the record, it's my opinion that he reacted the way most people would have, except that he was probably more reasonable and willing to work with you than most people would have been.
3) The defects on this cue are fairly obvious and easy to spot. Because the damages are fairly easy to see, most reasonable people would think that you intentionally misrepresented the cue as mint when you knew that it was not. Most people who intend to sell a mint condition item would inspect that item well enough to have caught such obvious damage. If you really did not see those damages, you made a MAJOR error by claiming mint condition when you never gave the time and small effort necessary to verify the condition. Take ownership of that and do what you need to do to make it right. Keep in mind that most people would think that it was more likely that you lied, rather than making such a huge error in judgement. His initial feeling that you may not have been completely honest about the condition would also have been the first thought for most other people.
4) You are NOT a perfect seller. A perfect seller does not lie about the condition of a cue. A perfect seller would not be so negligent that when they would not even look over the cue well enough to find such obvious damage when they planned to sell it as being in mint condition. You did one or the other. If it was a mistake then admit it, and make it right. People make mistakes after all. It's all in how you handle it that makes the difference.
5) Nobody will care about this? Well I care about this, because now I know the way you currently conduct your business and your attitude about it, and I (and many others I'm sure) will never do any business transaction with you unless your future actions prove that you have changed your way of thinking.
 
Eye Doctor

Boston Mike really should spend his ill-won profits on a trip to the eye doctor and some typing lessons. :D
 
boston.mike said:
hehe this is kind of fun. lots of interesting posts. everyones seems split 50/50 or they are talking about something completely different. hehe
And, you are being a knob about this whole deal. Do the right thing and fix the guy's cue or refund his money. It's simple, Mike.
 
boston.mike said:
? are you saying his to me or someone else? sorry i dont understand so its probably nt me although you quoted me. thanks
I will make it very clear for you.....

You, MIKE, are making excuses instead of fixing the problem.

And, I have NO RESPECT for you either, MIKE. So, I guess I'm being DISRESPECTFUL toward you.

Is this clear enough? Do you understand now?
 
Mike,

I have to say I am confused.

My thought on the matter is that if it was a cue I sold, I would try my very best to satisfy the person who bought from me.

Satisfaction may come in the form of returning the cue for the purchase price, an adjustment to the price or offer to pay for a new wrap...something.

For all I can tell, you have offered George no compensation at all. No recourse, just buyer beware and sorry for your luck.

Now that He's upset, you are saying that you won't take care of the problem.

Come on, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

You need to compromise.
 
TATE said:
Actually, you refunded my money in full and told me to keep the cue as a gift. I felt bad because I blew a gasket on you and we split the deal.

And that's exactly why I consider you a respected friend today, Matt. Not many people have your character or charisma. You're a rare individual.

Chris

Ps. I can't give you more rep just yet, but maybe some friends will for posting this.

Well, I appreciate your nice words Chris, and you are a valued friend as well! I still appreciate that wonderful book you purchased and mailed to me "just because" you could (when as I said, you didn't really know me from Adam). Very thoughtful!

Kum..By..Ya...my lord! Kum...by...ya....! :)
 
I guess I am old fashioned in the sense that when I make a deal, it is implied that satisfaction is guaranteed. I have never made a deal with anyone and had it end with them feeling that they were taken advantage of (I hope).

Mike, regardless of whether or not the cue was in fact perfect (which in this case it was obviously not), you should want your customer/the buyer to be happy, hoping in the recesses of your mind that he may in be a return customer in the future. I currently have an old C series McDermott that I have sold to the same guy three times. Each time, he traded it up for something else, sold that cue, and came back to ME for another cue. I am the winner overall.
 
Mr. Wilson said:
Mike,

I have to say I am confused.

My thought on the matter is that if it was a cue I sold, I would try my very best to satisfy the person who bought from me.

Satisfaction may come in the form of returning the cue for the purchase price, an adjustment to the price or offer to pay for a new wrap...something.

For all I can tell, you have offered George no compensation at all. No recourse, just buyer beware and sorry for your luck.

Now that He's upset, you are saying that you won't take care of the problem.

Come on, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

You need to compromise.

My thoughts exactly,and if its buyer beware then now we know who to be aware of!Money back or adjustment is the standard.
 
Do the right thing

Mike,

Pretend you were on the other end of the deal and had bought a cue advertised as "mint" and when it arrived, it clearly wasn't.

You would certainly want something more in recompense than a dismissive "great deal anyway" response from the seller! You might even be a little steamed, especially if you'd tried to get the seller to make it right with no success.

So forget the rationale, settle this. People here do actually care, and will be watching. Feedback here on AZ is actually a much more thorough examination than it is on eBay.

Do the right thing.
 
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