Hell no you're not a sucker.... as long as you're keeping the bets as cheap as you can, or cheap depending on your financial situation. One man's cheap might be 2 dollars a game, anothers might be 20.00 a game.
But keep it cheap, because you're going to lose the majority of the time.
It's hard to find good players that will play you cheap and give up a lot of weight, but that is the ideal situation to learning if you can find someone.
It doesn't have to be a champion, because you've got a lot to absorb and a lot of basics to learn. Watch how the better players are moving balls to their side or near their hole and leaving you froze to a ball or making sure they hide you from seeing those balls. They are protecting them.
Watch how they shoot shots that don't have to necessarily be a shot in their pocket... sometimes it's designed to move balls from your side, to your hole and protect them all at the same time.
Watch how they carom off balls with the cueball to get where they need to go, or carom object balls off others to send them to their hole.
Watch how they use distance and the cueball on the rail to their advantage. They will tease you with a shot, but you'll be 8 ft from the ball, almost on the rail and you'll be straight in so you can't do anything with the cueball and there will be hell to pay if you miss. You need to learn how to control yourself from shooting those.
Watch how they leave you uptable seemingly with a shot at your hole, but when you get down there, you notice there is no clear path to the pocket.. They put you there on purpose.
Watch all the short rail banks down there near the pockets. Watch what shots bank, which ones don't, what speeds you need to hit them to avoid kisses. Watch the english they use and whether its high or low.
Watch how they take balls out of the pocket and which ones can be taken out and which ones can't. Watch what english they're using, what kind of stroke they're using.
Watch how they sometimes pass up shots you think they would take and choose something else.. figure out why they did that. Ask them.
Enjoy your lessons! The more you learn, the more you will get hooked on this game of all games!
There's nothing more satisfying then when you are down by a lot of balls and you think there is no way you can win, that if you be patient and tighten the noose on them, pick up a ball here and there, they scratch.. all the sudden you're back in the game. I've came back several times from 7 to -1 and won the game. One of those games took about 90 mins to finish, but I was happier then hell and proud I stuck to the game plan.