What not How
elvicash said:
Now I am trying to be more technical, I am trying to burn in good technique, really groove it and elevate my game to a high plateau and then go back to the flow thing and let it happen.
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Part of my issue is figuring out how to let it happen when I am trying to control my actions/technique.
I know exactly what you mean.
I have been trying a root & branch overhaul of my technique, and for a while I found that my game was going down the pan in the process

It took me some time to realize the root problem was that I was unable to concentrate on WHAT I was doing because I was concentrating so much on HOW I was doing it.
It is a little bit like trying to walk across the room concentrating hard on the detailed processes involved, ie picking one foot up, shifting the balance forward, raising one knee....etc. It hardly makes for easy saunter across the floor.
There are two things that I have found very helpful in combating this.
One is to behave in a different way when you are practicing a particular shot than when you are playing a game. When doing a practice drill sure, think about your stroke (your stance, PSR, follow through or whatever). But when playing a game, only think about what you want the balls to do,
not about how you need to move to make that happen. In 'game mode' the only time you should let any thoughts enter your head while you are on the shot is when you get that gut feeling that something is wrong and you are about to foul up. When that happens, of course you have to take notice (get up and start over). But otherwise, focus only what you want the balls to do.
The second thing is to try as far as possible to
be acutely aware of what you are doing technically rather than
to consciously control it. That way you can learn, and improve, without staggering across the room a drunk who has just been shot.
Siz
PS (no offense intended to drunk or shot people)