2 sided answer
First, Gabe started playing the game when he was about 15. He
started to 'get serious' when he was about 17. (I gave him the
7 when he was 17, so he was making progress on his game. Between
17 and 19, his game took off by leaps and bounds (first living trip
down to Tulsa). He was an A+ then when he returned to Wichita,
and it wasn't hard to see he had talent for the game, but Gabe worked
hard on his game. Talent does you no good unless you know how to
develop it.
A Poolplayer odd result - I considered trying to go pro when I was 24, but
decided that getting my college degree was more important. I got an A.A. from San Jacinto, and a B.B.A. from University of Houston. I kept playing
and gambling all that my life would permit me to. I worked 55 hours a week
at Boeing, and carried 12 hours in Graduate School at night, plus had a wife
and son to worry about. I worked for over 20 years with demanding schedules, went back to technical school when I was 28 to crosstrain into
computers. I ended up going through 4 divorces through marriages to 3
women (married one twice). I got downsized where I had been for 18 1/2
years, and was always considered part of the skeleton crew. I had some
emotional problems for 2 years (deaths, divorce, another relationship for
2 years that went south) that resulted in myself being on disability. I was
50 at the time, and the only jobs that seemed interested in me were on the
East coast or Phoenix (I live in Wichita). I took a year consulting job in
Indianapolis after getting downsized, and I did not want to move clear across
the country again at my age to be alone in a big city by myself since the
rest of my family was located here, and the fact that I kind of have to
watch out for my Mom. I can not even find a part time job, as they all tell
me I am over-qualified. Other full time jobs around here don't consider me
at my age, or because I have been on disability. I never in the world
expected my life to turn out like it has. I only wanted to be married once,
raise a good family, and enjoy things in life, and grow old with my wife, and
have some security as I grew older. SO NOW, I WONDER WHAT WAS IT ALL
FOR? WOULD I HAVE HAD A BETTER LIFE IF I HAD DECIDED TO GO AHEAD
AND GO FOR IT BY TURNING PRO? Just food for thought ... Sometimes,
taking that 'safe' course of action isn't always the best thing to do. Sometimes, reaching for that dream, no matter how far away it seems,
might be the right thing to do.