powerlineman80 said:
Well why didnt you just cancel the order??? You had no money involved.
I agree two years is b.s. but you had nothing in it, so why was it so hard to get out even when you had a mortgage and engagement rings?
Listen-
My personal life and how I manage my money is none of your concern. Frankly, its none of anyone's concern.
And even though
NO aspect of my personal life is your business, I will answer your question. Two and a half years ago, I wasn't dating the woman I am with now and, at that time, I pegged myself as remaining single for the rest of my lilfe. Cues were my thing. I had many. Bluegrass. Motteys. Hercek. Benders. You name it. I never thought I was going to find someone that I would want to marry or, more to the point, that would want to marry me. So, while I loved cues, I had heard good things about Eric's work and I knew that since he was relatively unknown, I placed an order that, at the time, would have cost me several hundred dollars as opposed to $1500 plus! So I figured, what the hell. I'll give it a shot.
Then, I met someone that had me right away and after a while, I knew that she was the one. So, I did what I had to do. I sold the things I truly loved. Benders. Herceks. All of my Motteys (including my playing cue that I SWORE I would never sell). I kept a beat up sneaky to play with on the rare occassions I get the chance to play.
Nowadays, my priorities are much different than they were to years ago. Its fiance first, mortgage second, and cues rank somewhere towards the bottom. But when I see a decent deal I assess my financial situation and I see if I can make it work. In this case, with the price quoted I could easily make it work. But that didn't matter did it? Because I never got anything to pay for!!!! I was told I would. I was told it was in the works. I was told pics would be coming. I was told the cue was coming along nicely. I was told a slew of things that were nothing but lies, as Eric admitted.
So, lets recap. I placed an order when money was flowing more freely - and the price of the order was cheap. Times got tighter. The economy went in the shitter. I took on big expenses. But, I assessed my financial situation and, while I got rid of the high dollar cues and cancelled some high dollar cue orders (another Mottey, a Haley order that I gave to a friend), I realized that I could still make this order work. So I tried.
...but there was one problem. ERIC DIDN'T TRY! He wanted me to think he did. He wanted me to think that everything was a-ok and it would be just a little longer. But he didn't try. So there I was waiting for a cue that I could afford. A good cue. A solid cue. A cue that I had designed and that Eric agreed to. But it never showed despite the 'promise' that it would.
Eric brushed me off. Eric admitted to it. Eric took an order, didn't deliver, fed me nothing but bull-shit, and then got defensive when his business practices were called into question. Then, Eric justified his actions by saying that he was just 'playing peek-aboo' with me and that he had no problem doing so. So in short, this hero to so many took an order, lied about it repeatedly, had no intention of filling it, but passed over it to fill dealer orders and other customer orders.
All of this, and I'm the ass-hole here?!?!
You people are ridiculous. As for my personal life and my personal finances, I won't go into discussion of that anymore. Don't proceed to tell me what my priorities are and what they should be. I know what my priorities are. They are
exactly as they should be. If they weren't, I'd still have thousands of dollars worth of cues and no fiance. I'd be living in the same apartment. But times change and with it, so did my priorities. But let me ask you... when an opportunity presents itself and you can make work, why shouldn't you try???