During my first cycle as a pool player, from about age 18 to 33 I ONLY played for money! I was the guy always trying to get people to bet something, probably pretty obnoxious at times. After I had my revelation about pool and totally quit for three years, I came back with a wholly different attitude. I quit trying to hustle people and only played for the love of the game. It took me awhile to accept the fact that some guys just want to gamble when they play, so I began accepting money games if they came my way, but I never asked anyone to gamble myself. They had to ask me first.
I'm pretty much still that way today, preferring to play with friends and maybe bet dinner on the outcome. I have accepted a challenge or two over the years (JoeyA took me for 500!), but those games have been few and far between. Jazznpool and I have played a little One Pocket in preparation for Griff's event next month and he has me two games stuck so far. Our bet is a small one between friends.
I'm fortunate to be at a point in life where I don't need the money and don't really care about beating anyone to prove anything. I'm not saying I won't play and gamble, just that it's not likely to happen except under some extraordinary circumstances. My bursitis/arthritic condition was so bad for the last year that I couldn't even get down on the balls. Thanks to daily doses of Tumeric it has subsided to the point where I can play again. I got crushed in the Senior's event in Houston a year or so ago (I was definitely not in any condition to be playing), only winning one match while I was there. Hopefully, I can improve on that in Vegas later this month.
P.S. It's funny but I feel more pressure playing in a tournament then playing for cash. That's probably because I gambled so much early on and never played a tournament until I was about 30. I always felt in my element when their was a bet!