Have faith and patience in your ability to succeed. That goes a lot further than notetaking, videotape, or words. That's step 1.
Have an openmind. An openmind is a black hole for knowledge, a closed mind is a brick wall for knowledge. That's step 2.
Realize that instructional material is not magical, nor does it really do anything by posessing it. There is nothing magical in my words or anybody else's. Your success is directly proportional to your dedication to overcome your shortcomings. As an instructor, all I can do is provide the tools and the material that you need to build your game. I provide the materials and your job is to pound the nails into the wood and build something with it. Your blueprint is your goals - which should be your vision, not mine. Thats step 3.
If anything goes wrong along your journey, go back to step 1.
That's step 4.
Work on this until you believe in yourself more than anybody else does.