Sweet Marissa said:
Debra (straybullet)... weren't you just posting about starting a mud wrestling contest with Wendy?
and when I did so it was to stick a pin into the bloated hostile atmosphere (created by your comment to Barbara) so that us girls could get together, cut up, and have a good time. IIRC, it was also posted in the NPR forum, with the exception of when I brought it up in the HALHOULE thread on CCB Main forum - but that thread was just as stupid as this one - and they moved it to the NPR forum eventually. Also, the thread you brought up was intended to be
stupid, not sexual in nature. It wasn't stupid by accident, it was stupid by design. Go back and read it and you will see what took it off course. It wasn't me that did that.
Marissa I have told you before that I have had a lot of trouble in the forums. That is not a secret.I can sit here and say that I have never contradicted myself and if I do or say something that warrants an apology, I will be right there, pride pushed aside and communicating with the utmost sincerity. I have told you before that all of this is just words on a screen. Don't take "it" or yourself too seriously. Try to get along with as many people as you possibly can, of course you'll butt heads with some people - but that's just part of life - learn to deal with it. You're not going to get along with everybody with the way you conduct yourself here. Neither am I. What separates you and I - is that I understand that. In time, you will too.
There are personal things about me, my life, my current situation that many people know about - AWAY from the forums. There has to be a line drawn that says on this side - everybody can know this stuff - but on this side - its none of their business. If you
do not draw that line, you leave yourself open to have people judge facts about your personal life. When stuff about me does leak out - I don't respond to it. If people want the facts, they can get with me privately. It doesn't need to be aired out here.
There is a myth that I don't know anything about pool. That isn't true. I don't need to boost my ego and shout from the mountain tops about how well I play. I like for it to be a surprise. I'm not Jeannette Lee, but I shoot ok. I have more to learn which is why I read more than I post. Of course I post stupid things sometimes, but I know that - and 100% of the time it is not by accident - it is intentional. Chill out, relax, and if you're going to fight - have some fun with it like I do. Be creative. People will eventually see through the argument and see the humor. That usually wins them over.
I will now go back to my exile in the NPR forum
Debra