..."Personally, I have yet to find a cue under 20 oz that felt right to me except for a 19 oz Tad I tried that was balanced perfectly. But alas, it was a couple of zeros out of my price range..."
My cue weighs exactly 19.0oz with the lighter(4.0oz) of my 3 shafts. I've been using this combination since around '93. Prior to that my other TAD was a beast at 21+. I did start, way back when, with an 18.oz Wille Hoppe. The 18oz. Hoppe proved to be just way too light and I switched to a 19oz TAD for a while then to a heavier one. I did play with the 'beast' for quite some time until I came across my current cue.
The balance and butt size along with the weight suit my style of play just fine. I do have a couple other 19 oz. cues but the balance and weight distribution don't feel as good as my player...soooo subjective.
Gerry S