he wins 3 sets, $20 a set. Player B wants to play one more set for $80, but A will only play for $60. B calls A a nit.
I know player B. I see him everywhere.
He is the guy that if you give him that $80 set and he happens to win it, he is going to quit you. Guaranteed. There is zero chance he is going to play you another $80 set after that. He probably isn’t even going to be willing to play you anymore $20 sets after that either for that matter. He is done and just wanted to find a way to escape a bad situation without it costing him. One of two things was probably going on. Either he had figured out that he was a serious dog in a bad game that day and is trying to luck into a set that gets him even (slightly better in this case) and lets him escape without penalty, or he is broke and can’t afford to lose the amount that he was already down and therefore was trying anything he could to luck out of having to owe that debt. Or both.
He is the guy that if you give him that $80 set, and he loses that one too, pretty good chance he wants to “double or nothing” or otherwise raise the stakes again even if that isn’t the terminology he uses. And if he loses that one, he will probably ask to do it again ad nauseam. He knows he is going to finally win one of these sets, and when he does he quits and gets to get out of the bad game even and without penalty.
He is the guy that if you give him that $80 set and he loses and does decide he needs to quit after that one or even if it goes a few more sets, there is a strong chance he isn’t going to be able to pay you. He already couldn’t really afford to lose the amount (or the pride) he was down to begin with, hence the reason he probably wanted to risk jacking the bet to begin with for a long shot chance at getting even or better.
Is there some chance he was just slow getting started and now feels he is in stroke and favored and that is why he wants to raise it to $80, a slightly more than a double or nothing amount? Or that he was intentionally losing the first few sets to set you up for a bigger score? Or thinks that he handles pressure better than you and that you will fold when the stakes are raised? Etc? Yes, but these are far less likely, especially if he is a local player you are already at least somewhat familiar with. He was just trying to luck into getting out of a bad game he couldn’t win or a debt he couldn’t afford without it costing him.
Could also be that he is just an idiot that overrates his game or lets pride get in the way and can’t accept reality and wants to go off, but it isn’t like you weren’t already willing to triple the bet to take advantage of it if that is the case. If there is an argument to be made on somebody being a nit here, it would be player B. Why isn’t he willing to win it back under the same terms that you had to win it? Why does he expect you to make it easier for him to win it back than it was for you to win it from him? Why does he expect you to risk coming out lopsided winner on sets but loser on money? And if he was really wanting to play $80 sets (and he wasn’t until he felt the need to have to shoot for a miracle), why didn’t he insist on $80 sets to begin with?
Screw him. Player A has every right to tell him he has to win it back the exact same way he won it from him, $20 at a time, but he isn’t even doing that. He is offering him a triple the bet/double or nothing shot. That isn’t being nitty. That is going way above and beyond and being generous.