Earl was the next generation...and things DO move on.
I don't disagree with that. But I really don't think ES's point was that "things move on". I think he was just building himself up at the expense of someone else and the background context happened to be "things move on".
Either way, if it was me, I would be embarrassed to tell the story itself. I wouldn't want anyone to hear the words "this man cried because of me". It seems on the surface that it's some kind of really insightful story that tells a point about the pool world. But some things are more important than other things and if it were me, I wouldn't tell the story at all. If I were the only one who knew that Lassiter cried that day, then I would remain the only one who knew Lassiter cried that day. There's no real payoff in telling that story. In ES's mind there is a payoff, and that's what's wrong with him.
Not every story has to be told, not every thought has to be expressed. Some people go out of their way to help someone and they don't ask credit for it and never receive credit for it, and they are just OK with that. Other people would advertise it so that everyone would know what a "great" person they "are". Some people see someone do one thing that is really awful, and may speak to that person to point out the error of their ways and never mention it to anyone else - everyone makes a mistake here and there. Another person might just tell the whole world about this person's mistake just to gain "instant credibility". Some people do something negative and want a reward for it. "Look at me, look what I can do. Never mind that it's actually a bad thing."
It's kind of a society thing. So many people don't see what's wrong with this that it just seems OK now - not to everybody, but to way too many people. The standards in the society have declined. So in that framework, it's not entirely ES's fault. He has gotten way too much "encouragement" to behave this way. And now he is in a hole he will never get out of - that is, in my opinion, and in my way of looking at things.
As for the video you linked to, I can't hear most of what's going on, so I don't know how to respond. If your point is, "Here look, here's Earl having a normal moment," I'm like "so what?" I'm sure he has normal moments from time to time.
OK, that's enough of that soap box. I made my point, kind of getting tired of hearing myself, and probably won't post about this any more.
Fatz