Lost my best friend over night
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Stay strong and know that your AZ family is here to help you out!
so sorry to hear about your loss.
Im so very sorry to hear about anyone passing away, and wouldnt wish your pain among my worse enemy. Lost my life long best friend (cousin 1 year younger, lived right next door.. like a brother) 4 years ago in a car wreck. I only wish I could have told him that I loved him before he was gone... I really hope you had your chance to show your wife just how much you love her.
Stay strong and god bless. Ill keep you in my payers.
Stay strong and god bless. Ill keep you in my payers.
Condolences, Mike.
Mike, so sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you and your family through this difficult time and keep you at peace.
Mike, I am sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss
sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers are with you Kyle
sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers are with you Kyle
cueball1950 said:As everybody on here knows my loving and beautiful wife has been very very sick. Well last night, over night, she passed very calmly in her sleep. She was in all intent and purposes my best friend and my guardian angel. Arrangements are pending at present. Now to figure out the financial part when i meet with the funeral home director. And no this is not a hint for money or anything like that. But i do want to thank everybody for their thoughts and all of their prayers. She is in a far better place today.......again,,,,,,thanks....................mike
Mike, we are all very sorry for your loss.
Stop in anytime if you feel like talking.
You might consider bringing another associate whom you know and trust (that is not closely related to you)to discuss with you the choices you can make.
JoeyA
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Dear Mike,
It is so special and thank you for sharing your heart and the intimate experience of the loss of your wife. Words cannot convey the numbness, pain and emotions you must feel. I watched my father in 1990 experience the loss of my mother after 38 years of marriage. Watched him reach out to interests of hers that he had not previously shared as a way to still feel physically connected. It comforted him and as time moved on, even in death she taught him, expanded his life. See, he developed a new part of himself through his grief, previous walls that existed and which we all have, I watched fall away. Through the pain of my mother's death, my father deveoped a whole new appreciation of life.
May God comfort you in the morning hours when there is too much quiet
May God comfort you in the afternoon when you turn to say "honey..." and realize you are not able to hear her response
May God comfort you in the evening when you find yourself wondering the house not knowing why you walked into that room or down that hallway
The sun does rise higher through time
The fog does lift as the calender marches on
Happy memories, laughter and joy transition from the pain and tightness in the chest.
Be gentle with yourself, give yourself time, on those days where you think you should be "over it" whatever that truly means, know it's ok to grieve, cry, vent, yell, and that over time a new life will begin with her still in it, but now joyously in your heart and mind.
Love transcends all things, is all things, heals all things.
It is so special and thank you for sharing your heart and the intimate experience of the loss of your wife. Words cannot convey the numbness, pain and emotions you must feel. I watched my father in 1990 experience the loss of my mother after 38 years of marriage. Watched him reach out to interests of hers that he had not previously shared as a way to still feel physically connected. It comforted him and as time moved on, even in death she taught him, expanded his life. See, he developed a new part of himself through his grief, previous walls that existed and which we all have, I watched fall away. Through the pain of my mother's death, my father deveoped a whole new appreciation of life.
May God comfort you in the morning hours when there is too much quiet
May God comfort you in the afternoon when you turn to say "honey..." and realize you are not able to hear her response
May God comfort you in the evening when you find yourself wondering the house not knowing why you walked into that room or down that hallway
The sun does rise higher through time
The fog does lift as the calender marches on
Happy memories, laughter and joy transition from the pain and tightness in the chest.
Be gentle with yourself, give yourself time, on those days where you think you should be "over it" whatever that truly means, know it's ok to grieve, cry, vent, yell, and that over time a new life will begin with her still in it, but now joyously in your heart and mind.
Love transcends all things, is all things, heals all things.
Mike,
Sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine how you feel.
Sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine how you feel.
cueball1950 said:As everybody on here knows my loving and beautiful wife has been very very sick. Well last night, over night, she passed very calmly in her sleep. She was in all intent and purposes my best friend and my guardian angel. Arrangements are pending at present. Now to figure out the financial part when i meet with the funeral home director. And no this is not a hint for money or anything like that. But i do want to thank everybody for their thoughts and all of their prayers. She is in a far better place today.......again,,,,,,thanks....................mike
Sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.
Arnot
Mike,
My prayer for you today and the days to come is that God be with you, your freinds and family will surround you, hold you up, and keep you strong.
Have faith and don't give up. It looks as though there are many here who support you and care. Don't be afraid to lean.
My sympathies,
td
My prayer for you today and the days to come is that God be with you, your freinds and family will surround you, hold you up, and keep you strong.
Have faith and don't give up. It looks as though there are many here who support you and care. Don't be afraid to lean.
My sympathies,
td
Oh Mike,
This is terrible news and good to know she is no longer suffering. Your suffering will slowly diminish and I hope that it's sooner rather than later. No one can ever prepare enough for this so I know how you're struggling. You have my deepest sympathies.
Thanks for reaching out to us and knowing that we're all here for you.
Be well my friend!
Brian in VA
This is terrible news and good to know she is no longer suffering. Your suffering will slowly diminish and I hope that it's sooner rather than later. No one can ever prepare enough for this so I know how you're struggling. You have my deepest sympathies.
Thanks for reaching out to us and knowing that we're all here for you.
Be well my friend!
Brian in VA
So sorry to hear.....
Now She's an :angel2:
Russ....
Now She's an :angel2:
Russ....