My heart goes out to you, Maniac.
The day, six years ago, that Gail came home one Friday night to tell me she had just been diagnosed with cancer was the worst day of my life. Like you, my wife is my best friend.
My only counsel, which I doubt you need, is to stand by her and provide strength. That's the most important thing. To be strong for her when -- in those moments she will inevitably falter -- you can provide spiritual and physical support. Hold her hand, be at her side no matter how tough and ugly it gets.
You both have my prayers.
Lou Figueroa
^^THIS^^
have Faith. you'd be surprised at the Force that comes from AZB. my thoughts are with y'all.
PL