Neil, as the recipient of a lot of banned members posting (trolls), I empathize with your frustration. I realize today that the only reason it was so hurtful to me was because I used to care a great deal about AzBilliards Discussion Forum. I devoted a lot of time to contributing to pool-related threads, whether it be about historical events, trip reports, updates at tournament, photographs, and fun pool memories.
When they went after Keith because of their disdain for me, that ended me caring about this forum. When you let it go, it won't bother you anymore, either.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again. There really is a life outside of AzBilliards Discussion Forum. You can still enjoy the News Page on front page of the website without even having to venture into the Discussion Forum. I find I like reading the News page in the mornings.
I come to the forum mainly to catch up on tournament updates. We have friends active on the tournament trail, and it's fun to see how far they advanced and how much money they pocketed.
Like the print newspapers that have gone belly up, the fourth estate has suffered a major blow thanks to the advent of crowd sourcing and social media. You can today get the news much faster on crowd-sourcing and social medial outlets than you can in print or on a discussion forum.
If camaraderie is what you're looking for, networking with like-minded folks, the forum used to be a great place to do this, but due to the trolls continuing to jump in and out of threads with their nasty and flippant posts made for the sole purpose of causing hurt and/or anger, this forum does not offer what it used to.