Tommy-D said:> In my mind,if a game is agreed on with absolutely NO mention of a time limit,then you are there until one of these 4 scenarios plays out.
I bust you.
You bust me.
The place closes.
We come out even,and both quit.
Now,if I have to leave in 3 hours to go to work,I'm going to tell you before the coin is flipped. I expect the same. That way,if one of us is ahead at that time,you knew about it well in advance. I didn't pull a spineless move,and get up 5-6 games and say "well,I have to leave in 20 minutes". If I play,I'm planning on doing nothing else until I HAVE to. At least that is the way it's supposed to be.
The only time I've ever quit a winning game is when I was just too tired to play anymore,and was 10 sets up playing races to 13. My opponent paid me and made me buy breakfast,but we were also best friends. He ragged me about it for a while,but no biggie. I've never quit winner for any other reason,even having to call in to work a few times,or leave for work and let the guy slide for cheap stakes. If I'm betting 100 a set or more,there are NO free rides.
If no discussion of time constraints takes place,I will assume that you want to play as bad as I do,and that you will stay as long as the room is open,or however long it takes to determine a winner.
Quitting even SHOULD be a mutual decision,but there are circumstances that do not always allow this.
I've been fortunate to not run into the kind of gutless,hopelessly nitty people that agree to play 20 a rack or 50 a set and try and quit after winning the first game or set,people that pull that s**t are probably trying to score so they can get a fix.
I have had a guy play me for 4 hours and try to quit 8 games up for 20,by saying he was only going to play a few more racks,because his backer had to be home in an hour. I told him to tell his backer to leave him the money,and go now. He refused,saying he had to get some sleep for work,which was 14 hours from right then. What he was saying sounded suspiciously like "I'm getting weak,and know you can and will outlast me,so this is my best way out". I STIFFED him,adding that since he's not even playing 20 a rack on his own money,that he's not out anything,and that I've played him for 16 hours before for the same bet and had him stuck 12 games after 6 hours,but gave him 10 hours to get even,and never mentioned quitting,eventually coming out 20 games winner. Tommy D.
I agree with your initial four points, but I could never imagine stiffing anyone, once you get a reputation for not paying you are toast for getting action around here, regardless of the situation!!!!