I think were all talking about raking in a nasty way. Nobody minds if the balls are pushed up softly. Its all about how its done, almost as if something was said.
If its the first set or match of the night, I agree raking can keep an opponent "cold." Cold or not though, I try to shrug it off and take the win. Unless its a top notch player, raking often has a way of backfiring. Raking can be part of the mental erosion process. So I see it as a win, and I also see the possibility of my opponent beginning to break down. He can also cry and whine all he wants to, it only builds my confidence.
After reading this thread yet again after a nights sleep, I think you are right and I failed to see we are all possibly looking at this in different ways. Either way the balls are raked, be it gently with care or brutally with force and anger, as long as I get the verbal option to accept the concession is all that matters to me. Should I wish to shot them out, at least I was given the respect to have that option. Thats the entire point of all my posts in this thread. I also agree with your point of the mental erosion of the opponent doing the raking, but there might* also possibly be some for the person who the concession was forced on without consent as well.
That's the problem, we're not all talking about the same thing. There's a lot of miscommunication going on.
I think you may be right on the money here. I think I owe you an apology for the endless back and forth in this thread. After re-reading all of it after a nights rest, I see I may have been a bit stubborn in my postings with you. For that I am sorry, nor was that my intentions during the process.
As mentioned earlier, I am terrible at the written word, it's simply a lack of education and writing skills. I meant no disrespect what soever. If you had any feelings I was trying to fuel a verbal showdown, please accept my apologies.
To the original poster:
I also feel I owe you a small apology as well for hijacking your thread, although it was on topic, I think I may have over stated my opinions on the matter a few to many times.
This is obviously a topic I'm fairly passionate about. I'm not completely against the concession itself, but merely when and how its done, and did I get the option to accept it or not. I feel if I have the need or desire to play out the game, I should be afforded that right and not have my choice forced upon me by another.
The verbal "It's good", or the physical gesture (thumbs up or the likes), gives me the option to decline. The raking of the balls, whether it be nice or rudely done, leaves me with no choice or recourse after the fact other than a verbal confrontation.
Regarding the opponent, I understand the displeasure of his misfortune to miss his run-out or leave a hanger, but why should I allow him to be rewarded by not sitting/standing by and watching me cruise to a game victory for which he created that possibility, regardless if its a dead shot or a 3-5 ball easy run-out. Why am I expected to ease his tension and inner turmoil, by allowing him to bypass that painful few moments it takes me to finish the game legally by the rules set forth of the governing body?
Man, this should have been my first and only post in this entire thread. It would have saved me a lot of typing, and made my point a lot quicker.
Dopc... Needs to learn to get to the point quickly