Grady was never a good friend of mine, but our paths crossed often over the past twenty years and we had our share of relatively brief chats.
I remember when he predicted that Mike Zuglan would win the 1992 US Open 14.1 event. With the likes of Sigel, Varner, West, Martin, Hopkins and Rempe in the field, this seemed unlikely to me, and I shared this opinion with Grady .... but sure enough, Zuglan played brilliantly and looked like he might be the one to beat until Sigel's legendary 150 and out sent him to the loser's bracket, where the great Dallas West would eventually get the better of him in the loser's bracket final.
I also recall sharing reminiscences of the grand old days of 14.1 at length with Grady during the 2009 Dragon Straight Pool event at Comet Billiards in New Jersey. To our delight, our mutual friend Pete Margo joined us, and then Dan Diliberto joined the three of us. Grady was, is, and will always be remembered as a prominent member of the old school of pool.
In fact, just a couple of months ago, Grady showed he'd maintain a good humor until the very end. In the Accu-stats arena while the bank-pool ring game was in progress, he publicly ribbed his good friend Truman Hogue, commenting "I can't believe they're letting you hold the money."
He'll be remembered as a great player, a pool entrpreneur and visionary, and a great raconteur. Yes, it's a sad moment, but there is nothing sad about a life well lived.