If you support yourself by playing as much pool as other people do working, of course you should not be allowed in a amateur tournament, unless the handicap is such that it neutralizes the difference.
I don`t have the time to play much now, but when I do play, I sometimes meet people who live their lives at the pool hall. And the question: "do you wanna play for something" comes up.
Yeah sure, I`ll play for a beer, a pop or whatever, but make the odds even. Spot me 1 up to the 7 ball in 10 ball and we will be even. Then their not interested anymore, because it`s "unfair"
But asking a guy who plays less pool per month than they do in a day, and expecting me to pick up your beer tab, that`s somehow fair?
This IS why pool has a bad reputation.
I`m totally fine with people who want to perform under preassure, but they can do so on their own choosing. To think that every pool players is highly competetive and it's only a match when money is on the line, is to miss the point of the sport.
I have always played pool to relax and get away from the everyday stress.