I don't know JoeyA except from what I've read of his posts. Knowing that he plays in some of the high-powered tournaments, I can only surmise that Joey must be a good player.
IMHO, good players ALWAYS want to figure out how to win or what they could do different to have won. I think that one-pocket brings out the worst of the slow-mo players, but they are there in every game. Now days, most tournaments have a shot clock/slow play rule except for one hole. A good player wants to be prepared and have ways to handle the situation.
I dislike posts like that from Vagabond where he says, "I not only not play with them but also avoid any socialization with them. There are still openings for US Open one pocket.I am not entering the tournament because there are no rules against the slow players."
Why are you letting the possibility of slow players infringe on your tournament choice? Why don't you take it as a challenge to be conquered instead of just giving up?
I read all these posts about quitting, don't play the guy, etc...I don't think that is the point of the OP. To me, the point is, "What can I do to get me back on my game to be able to win in this situation?" It is more about trying to figure a way to win against a good, irritatingly slow player.
As pointed out by Black-Balled, "Dunno, but I can tell you what doesn't work: speeding yourself up to balance it out." That is oh so true.
Winston846 says, "Just deal with it and don't let it bother you. If you're opponent knows it's getting to you, he'll probably play even slower. He is, after all trying to win your money, so he'll exploit any advantage he can find."
Those are easy words to say and difficult to put into action. I too, would be interested in how others "deal with it". I have my way and it works for me except when I can't justify playing a long session. What is the mindset used to "deal with it"? What is the mindset you use so it doesn't bother you?
In re-reading his OP, JoeyA did figure out a way to win/get even. It involved doubling the stakes. Joey, is that the only change you made? What else did you do to get back to even? How did your mindset change? When the money went up, did your concentration level go up?
Sorry if I've stepped on some toes here. I'm just not big on quitting or not playing. To me, that's just another excuse for losing. I hate losing more than I like winning.