manwon said:
Ray, from Steve first post you have said numerous times that he is either not telling the whole story or that you think he is exaggerating. So if it is not possible knowing so little how can you do that.
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Now, I have not attacked you, I just do not agree with the manner you have treated Steve, when like you have said so little is known at this point.
No disrespect intended, just my opinion, have a great night!
IMO from the first post Ray has only asked for specifics of the transaction. The answers, when given, were quite vague & all of the questions asked have not been answered.
After reading your post, I went back and re-read Ray's posts to see if I could understand where you're coming from in your posts. I personally disagree with your assessment of Ray's posts. Yes, he did mention that Steve wasn't telling the whole story. However, Ray didn't say it in an accusatory way, he stated it, and it's the truth so how is that derogatory towards Steve? Due to Steve only giving vague answers and not the whole story, everyone is left to come up with their own conclusions. Ray's conclusion was that 6 unanswered phone calls sounds like an exaggeration to
him (Ray). He did not
accuse Steve of exaggerating.
When people are quick to join the lynch mob mentality, they're also quick to forget to ask the facts, consider the facts, or even comprehend the facts.
Let's put this into perspective. If Steve were to take this company to court, what do you think he's going to need in order to win? Do you think he can win it by simply saying what he's posted here? (if you were on the jury then I guess so) Or, would he have to provide the documentation that Ray has been requesting?
There's a lot of examples right here on AZ for why people should stop taking one person's side at face value & wait to get all of the info. Wasn't all that long ago Ronnie Wiseman supposedly stiffed some guy. People were ready to hang Ronnie. Then somewhere on page 20 something, the OP comes back & says "he was wrong", Ronnie was actually innocent of the charges he claimed against Ronnie.
I remember some guy in the FS section complaining about another member that he bought something from that didn't communicate with him. Enter the mob scene until one person decided to ask, "how long after your email did you wait for a response before you came on here?" and the guys answer was something stupid like 3 hours!
The whole Jasmin vs the WPBA thread recently is another example. All anyone knew was what very little was given in Jasmin's press release. There were 13 pages of people complaining about the WPBA & how Jasmin was wronged and yet not a single person had all the details. Then on the middle of the 13th page, after everyone had crucified the WPBA, Melissa Herndon made the following post.
Melissa Herndon said:
She did appeal prior to the Hard Rock event and she could have participated in that event since the penalties are put on hold until the appeal is settled. Both Jasmin and her manager were aware of this, but withdrew from the event anyhow.
The thread only made it to a few posts on page 14 and it finally died. Notice what people thought
after hearing more details...
juegabillar said:
Wow, it is a whole different ball game now. Big mistake Jasmin has made with the withdrawal of the recent event. It now defeats the purpose of her appeal. Based on this information and what I read today, Jasmin's only choice is to abide by the WPBA ruling and accept the two game suspension.
You're making a mountain out of a mole hill with your incorrect accusations of Ray's response to Steve and
anyone whose not requiring the same info Ray has asked for before condemning this company is only adding to the size of the mountain.
It's extremely difficult for a business to survive in these trying times but what a lot of people don't realize is that these "trying times" is everyday life in the billiard industry. The customer base is small and there's always more companies than there are customers. Every billiard company scrapes by and the last thing we need to do is ruin a struggling company's chance at survival by adding them to your dirt bag list without having all of the facts.