CCB clubby? What does that mean?
hondo said:
CCb still doesn't seem too interested in my pool discussion.
When I post the thread ends but I have had a lot of
fun on their non- pool discussion. Not nearly as clubby,
so I mainly post there. They don't cut you any slack,
however.
Hey Hondo,
When I first got on ccb and would bring up a topic, I often found out from other posters, that that topic had been discussed at length many times. Some of them had been on ccb a long time and knew not only which ones had been thoroughly discussed but where to find them in the archives.
It took me a year or two to see this. That the same old topics came up over and over again, usually once a year, for ex-the zone, or do you look at the ob last, or various things about strokes, bridges, stances, chalks, and tips. It only makes sense that after seeing the same topic several times, many posters are not interested in it and unless it is presented with a different twist than before, it may not generate a lot of interest.
As far as posts not being responded to, many of mine are not either. I have learned to check my motives. When I was looking at others responding as some way of validating my worth, it bothered me when they did not respond. Now, I respond or post if I have something to say,so it does not matter if anyone responds. Also, lack of responses to your posts does not mean that it was not read and it does not mean that people did not like what they read. Also there are lots reading and not posting, so you may be helping someone you do not know and will never meet..
As far as what you call clubby---No matter where you go on forums, churches, you will find those who have been there a long time, know each other well, and do not know you(any newcomer). You are an outsider to them until they get to know you and they seem 'clubby' to you. Some 'clubbiness' is a clique, with expectations of doing certain things etc, but sometimes it is only apparent 'clubbiness'. On CCB, there are some of these 'so called clubbies', that I have become friends with over time. These are people who have been there a long time and it took them awhile to decide they could trust me. Also, they have get togethers and some have met in person, where I have met only one or two, which also makes it hard to get to know people.
For ex- I just joined this church. All of the people are nice but they know each other well and have formed friendships and they do not yet know me. In this case, there is not a clique, but to some who are shy, they may come to that conclusion. It is an illusion, an apparent 'clubbiness'. To me, being extraverted, I see I have to make the first move to get to know them.
AZ-When Mike put up this forum we have, to replace the old primitive solftware, everyone had to reregister, so I was on here in the beginning. There were at first a few of us, so everyone knows me and I did not have to go through a one to two year period of 'fitting in'. So I was sort of in the same situation here as the 50 or so who first joined ccb and knew each other well. So, considering how popular AZ is getting, 5 years from now, will people think that there is this exclusive club and I am in it and those of us who were here first are 'clubby'? Interesting thought. LOL
Laura--->dont post as bluewolf anymore, it was time for the wolves to sleep