I dont care how good your cue hits. Hit is overrated. If you're paying attention to how the cue feels when you'playing then you're doing it wrong.
Perhaps you can try to look at it this way; it isn't how good a cue can be when it hits great but rather how bad it can be when it hits bad. In other words a great hitting cue allows you to do exactly what you are saying and a bad hitting cue interferes with it by being obtrusive. Now, exactly which kind of hit is obtrusive varies by individual as does which kind of hit is least obtrusive.
If you really have trouble getting your mind around the importance of a quality hit to many people then turn it around and think of it as the lack of a bad it that you want. Some people are less sensitive and distracted by such things as feel and hit than others.
If you really don't perceive it much then you are simply lucky and not so sensitive to it or simply so focused by nature or trianing it matters little to you. A poorly hitting cue will less likely interfere with your play. In that case I am sure you love playing with one of those old aluminum cues from the seventies...... Or maybe a cue with a nice buzz or rattle? That wouldn't bother your game at all, right?
I don't think dismissing the notion out of hand is solution. It discounts something that many people experience even if you don't.