I remember being around 3 and my mom taking me to see my dad at the pool room. I remember looking up at this TALL desk with stacks of balls, rows of tables and briefly seeing my dad before we went on to somewhere else. It all seemed cool.
Around the age of 7 my dad bought a kiddie table to play on in the basement. This will do NOTHING to help a pool game, but it was fun!
Around 8 and 9 my dad's friends would tell me how good my dad was, etc, etc....and for locals he was pretty good. I started getting him to take me out, so about once a week on Friday night my dad would take me to poolroom near our house, that is no longer there. We would play 8 ball and 9 ball. People would come by and talk with him, but he would only play me --- and encouraged me with every shot and every mistake. One thing he NEVER did was let me win. I learned how to lose gracefully because I didn't win a game for years until I started getting lucky rolls at 9 ball. I never really tried to get better, just had fun, was more of just a shotmaker and my dad didn't teach me anything. He didn't push me at it. Just pretty much enjoyed the time we spent together "playing".
So, from age 9 to roughly 15 my dad and I played at least once a week. My mission was to be able to beat him......and beat the pants off of him....but I devoted no more time to this during the 9-15 range than the once a week we played together.
At about 16 when I got my driver's license and a car. My friend from school mentioned that we should go to a poolroom in Nashville and gamble at pool. He asked if I had played...well YEAH I had. We went there and played partners against the owner's son for $5 smackers a man. We were all of the same age. My partner (friend from school) SUCKED....while the other two were about as experienced as me, if not more. I enjoyed gambling, and played well enough to keep us even.
From there, I started exploring other pool rooms, and people to play, but my progression was slow. I had some natural ability...but I hated to practice (still do). I would just always play, and learn from playing. I think if I had done this, along with practicing I would have gotten better faster....but such is life.
Finally when I was around 19 and came home on my first leave from the USAF, I beat the pants off of my dad. The taste of this long awaited victory was not very sweet. It was a narrow margin. As years went by and my game got better and better, my dad got older and older (he's 65 now) and played worse and worse. I would come home and just beat the pants off of him. Beating him 11-0 in 9 ball sets, etc, etc. If I missed a shot he would yell at me, telling me not to throw off on him. I admit, sometimes I would let him win games, but I tried to be real slick about it. Apparently i wasn't, because he could always tell when I did it on purpose.
It's funny. I always thought my dad was a pool GOD...before I got out there and learned some things. Once I could beat him, and learned his real "game" it kind of took the "awestruck" aspect away. But I'll tell you, for a 65 year old man that is blind in one eye, he still breaks and runs out 9 balls pretty darn good, and beats 90% of the players in his room. That in itself is kind of cool. When I played him a month ago, he made one of the toughest outs I've ever seen....and that spark of greatness shined through briefly. It was great to see!
My dad always tells me that when I come home for a visit he will stake me to play anyone in Nashville. I think it is more of a pride thing with him. He told great local players like Bobby Pickle that when I get back he was going to put me up against them......but I've carefully maintained a busy schedule on my visits home. My dad may be mad at his money, but I'm not.
Anyhow, I guess..to answer your question after such a long story, the reason I started playing pool was to have fun with my dad. Pretty cut and dry. And I look forward to our matches more than anyone else I could ever play.