a lot of motivation are tricks
Uh oh! Another flashback story: This one should remain the same in the retelling.

We were playing Mixed Scotch Doubles 9 ball vs Lavern and Joe. It was a race to 4 and I had a $20 sweat bet with Joe. (They were favored to win the event. We hoped to win A match.)
We won the flip and as my wife prepared to break, I saw the deer in the headlights look. Sooooo I sidled alongside her and whispered in her ear. "Did You hear what Lavern said?" Her response was instant and terse. "
What did
She say?" Was met with, "Never Mind". I pivoted and returned to my seat leaving her standing and preparing to break.
if I remeber right, she snapped the nine. I broke, made a ball and she made the 1-9. She broke made a ball, I made the 1 and she fired in a combo on the 9 ball. I broke made a ball and moved the 9 ball toward the corner. She made the combo on the 9 and immediately turned toward the handshake with a look of rage. I immediately intercepted and again whispered in her ear, "Lavern didn't say anything. I made it up."
Yikes!!!! HER RAGE was now pointed at Me!
Edit: Don't mention my retelling of the story. It still piss her off.
