the one thing i have to say about this is i think its a joke when your potential opponent uses the fact that you are getting backed as an excuse not to play. there is just no more of a joke than this if you use it as an excuse. if you dont want to play because you THINK a guy is getting backed, fine, but dont blurt out "i play on my own and you need a backer" that is such crap and if the moeny is there you need to either play or dont play but dont make that statement or you are really, truly a very "small" man.
the main thing here is, nobody can ever really tell if a guy is getting backed is the truth. and if you think a guy is betting his own maybe he isnt. it would be so easy for me to just have a stakehorse give me 2000 insted of having him come in, do you see the point here. and nobody except for the backer and the player know the exact arragement (unless they tell people). its just sematics, if a guy says i wont play cus you have a stakehorse and you'll be loose, will he play if i come in next time without the stakehorse.... its just useless, just play ir dont play. people shouldnt open their mouth about it cus if the money is there that is really all that matters.