Wifes leaving me,Should I let her take Her cue?

I'm sure the "soon to be ex" is reading all of these posts, LOL... There is no way in hell I would make this a public discussion, but we are all different. Good luck to you.
 
Ride, I know that it sounds like we are piling on the Women, as most of us have been thru at least one messy divorce at some point.

Plus, Myself and am sure all the guys here have had Friends that also had a bad time of it.

So, I will also include that obviously its not always on the Women. I have known guys that didn't know what they had until it was gone.

If it wasn't for break ups and D I V O R C E, Country singers would lose half of their material.

And as par usual with some threads on AZ, we are only hearing one side of the story. Be interesting to hear the other side.
 
Blue Hog ridr said:
Ride, I know that it sounds like we are piling on the Women, as most of us have been thru at least one messy divorce at some point.

Plus, Myself and am sure all the guys here have had Friends that also had a bad time of it.

So, I will also include that obviously its not always on the Women. I have known guys that didn't know what they had until it was gone.

If it wasn't for break ups and D I V O R C E, Country singers would lose half of their material.

And as par usual with some threads on AZ, we are only hearing one side of the story. Be interesting to hear the other side.
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Oh...I didn't think everyone was beating up on women....there are more male members here, so the opinions are bound to be slightly askew. But there are one or two here that one has to wonder if they have even had a relationship with a woman...let alone speak from experience...LoL!

I just know that me and the kids were terrorized by a man who was the cheater, and walked out on his family for someone else's family...and then went on the attack, because I found out about it. It got very bad, and we had to go into 'hiding' for a while, with help from a local agency. Yeah...I can pick the winners...LoL!!
 
Worse

Bowmer said:
I just hope one day you don't have too hard of a time seeing her w/ a new guy and he is the one shooting w/ the cue you made for her... :(
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Worse would be getting your ass kick in a game of pool by the new boy friend using the cue that he made and gave his ex wife.
 
Even worse Mike is if you say to the new guy, "Hows that used Pussy"?

And he answers back, "not bad, once you get past the used part".

Your game would fall apart shortly there after.
 
I don't even have to read all the posts to answer this, it will not be "what will I let her keep?", it will be what will she let me keep?
 
Well,I was thinking awhile how to answer this tread's/your's question properly.So,It is really hard to tell would would be really the best for you,however I do know that Wendy wouldn't left me nor my stick.She likes a firm stiff hitting cues and would do everything it's needed to get what she wants and on the way she prefers better.So,I am not in a right position to answer you on the most objective way.However,I can tell you this,if you really want to let her go don't give her the cue,because a woman without a stick isn't a woman.
Anyway,what size is the ferulle????
:wink::wink::wink::eek::wink::wink::wink:
The other thing that is very important in all this story is to stay calm and to not think on Gene Hackman as much as I do because he comes when he comes,when he feels prepared!!!
Hope this tips help you somehow although they aren't kamui:wink:
 
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What would you gain from being an Indian giver? If you're looking for legal advice, you should be consulting a lawyer, not an online forum.
 
ridewiththewind said:
Easily one of the most ignorant statements I have seen of late. There are far more single moms out there struggling, because their dear sweet husbands turned into self-absorbed, and nasty ex-partners, and left them with nothing but the kids...and dodge child support. You sound like a misogynist.
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Statistics do not back this up. 2 out of 3 divorces are initiated by the woman against the wishes of her husband. Most of the other minority of men whose "fault" it was didn't "turn into" anything. They were always a deadbeat asshole and the woman decided to have children with them anyway.

And that boys is why you don't date single moms. They make bad decisions and by the time you get to them they are wanting to be bailed out. And you're just the chump they are looking for. For now anyway. Until you raise the deadbeat's kids the rest of the way. Then all bets are off. BTDT I will admit. With experience comes wisdom.

JC
 
Simple question..you guy and girls turn it into whatever.I needed a well deserved laugh and got it.and thanks again.She can read it.She can have the cue and the case.Got a Lawyer and so does she.Whatever happens.. happens.Not looking for legal advice,in fact the best advice I heard was the race to 9 for everything.She loves pool and would never ask for the cue back,in fact I would love to have the friendship and the fun we had when we met playing pool back.But that's long gone
 
Cuebuddy said:
Be fair throughout the process, let her have the cue or she may find ways to give you the shaft:frown:
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Awesome.

Good advice that I got once "how she treats you has NOTHING to do with how you have to treat her." You can still be gracious and take the high road and let her keep the cue.
 
A friend who was a multi millionaire hired THE local top gun divorce attorney when he and his wife split, he figured it saved him 7-8 million in doing so. 5-6 years later we run into another local millionaire who without a doubt is the tightest, stingiest human being on Earth (funny, but that is the reason his wife of 40+ years left him). Mind you, this is a couple months after his wife filed on him and he had priced attorneys and he's like "What was the name/number of that attorney you used". When Doc told him his jaw hit the floor..... Same guy. Doc figured it cost the other guy at least as much as he had saved.

Don't skimp on a divorce attorney.
 
JC said:
Statistics do not back this up. 2 out of 3 divorces are initiated by the woman against the wishes of her husband. Most of the other minority of men whose "fault" it was didn't "turn into" anything. They were always a deadbeat asshole and the woman decided to have children with them anyway.

And that boys is why you don't date single moms. They make bad decisions and by the time you get to them they are wanting to be bailed out. And you're just the chump they are looking for. For now anyway. Until you raise the deadbeat's kids the rest of the way. Then all bets are off. BTDT I will admit. With experience comes wisdom.

JC
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Quote your sources for these alleged stats. I have never asked anyone to bail me out.
 
I can't believe this thread is still going.

1. Give her the cue and STFU.
2. Find a better "forum" to seek solutions to marital and/or divorce problems.
3. I am not shocked that the end of your marriage has devolved into what to do with the cue you had made for her.
4. Good luck in moving forward.
5. Just sayin'
 
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