I"m 64. I play at home every day but have very little desire to go to the ph and play with anyone. Sometimes, like about once every 6 months
, I go to the ph and play with Brad Simpson. I do that because he's a good player. I learn from him, he encourages me, and he never needs to bet or show me up in any way. Good guy. Playing with him is always a positive experience for me. Other than that going to the ph is a pain in the arse for me. Lound music, smoke, loud-mouth drunks giving me a hard time and even threatening violence because I'm an alcohol/drug counselor, and they have to blame somebody for their DUI's and having lost their drivers license forever.
I'd be willing to put up with all that crap but I just have no desire to get into competition of any kind. Who I can beat just doesn't matter. I do like going out to see friends and railbirding the tournaments.
I VERY much enjoy practicing at home and seeing that I'm getting better. I achieve a personal best of some kind about once a week and that's where the fun is for me. And as a couple of others have said I do lose interest after a while. It seems fairly universal that as the years add up the desire to prove anything diminishes. I've learned that heatfelt enjoyment is what it's all about and laughs, love, back-slaps, inner peace can't be beat by coming out on top in a pecker contest.
I'd be willing to put up with all that crap but I just have no desire to get into competition of any kind. Who I can beat just doesn't matter. I do like going out to see friends and railbirding the tournaments.
I VERY much enjoy practicing at home and seeing that I'm getting better. I achieve a personal best of some kind about once a week and that's where the fun is for me. And as a couple of others have said I do lose interest after a while. It seems fairly universal that as the years add up the desire to prove anything diminishes. I've learned that heatfelt enjoyment is what it's all about and laughs, love, back-slaps, inner peace can't be beat by coming out on top in a pecker contest.