I had similar experiences after I revived the world straight pool championships in 2006. After a few years of interest, I started putting money into the sport by way of this initial event. My participation came with a few caveats in order to grow this event into a substantial, self sustaining world championship. It also came with the promise of funding additional events. After 2 years it was painfully obvious to me where this was heading. NOT ONE OF MY SUGGESTIONS WERE IMPLEMENTED towards reaching our stated goals. It was also at this time that the IPT came along and there were key players that decided to put their eggs into that particular basket instead.
I love the game of pool and some of the players even more. But what I learned is that without unity and an ego-less leader, pool will NOT be anything more than an ancillary hobby. The game is in such shambles that with any decent plan and adequate financial commitments, success should be a given, right? But we've all seen many capable individuals come and go without achieving it. Mr. Badi Nazhat and Mr. Mark Griffen are only the latest casualties. I won't lay this all at the feet of the professional players, but will add that the game is played as an individual sport, not with a team mentality. In that regard, players are taught to look out for themselves from the day they pick up a cue. At this point though, I will admit, that I am unsure how to motivate them to suspend that perspective long enough to allow them to see the success that long standing unity will deliver.
I have many regrets myself. I know things now that I didn't when I pushed my chips in the middle. Early on, I passed on an opportunity to join the board of the BCA. I allowed others to control my money. There are other regrets too. I've learned some valuable lessons along the way. I'm sure Mr Nazhat feels the same way. I'm also sure that if he retains the passion for the game, he'll eventually reconsider his position and reconstitute a new plan. Its premature at this point to reveal any details, but I, along with some professional players, have been working diligently on a new project for the last 6 months. During much of this time I have spent separated from my family, a thousand miles away, in an effort to start a grassroots pool entity. Hopefully, the time, money and effort spent will create something positive for pool. Only time will tell. I only mention this to show that it is possible for good folks like Mr Nazhat to take their well deserved "pause" and find their way back to the game. All we need is a little luck and a lot of unity.
Best regards
Randy Goldwater