Brian,
Maybe you don't know how the average Joe pool player feels either. The first time I brought an amateur only tour to your area, I was told in advance by many players, that there were two players who, if they were allowed to play, these players would not waste their money. You were one of the two players, and I think you probably remember who the other was.
Maybe the "average Joe" poolplayer just figured that if they could play on a more even playing field, they might enjoy it more and actually feel like they could possibly cash out.
The open tours aren't going anywhere. There are plenty of them around the southeast. Why is it so bad that the lower skill level players have their own tournaments.
In professional baseball, there are a lot more opportunities in the minor leagues than there are in the majors. What would happen if ARod wanted to play for the Hickory Crawdads???? I suspect his personal stats would look pretty darn good...but would it mean as much to him if he is winning in the minors as it does when he performs in the majors?
You are better than most. You gotta deal with it.
Steve