The Jacksonville Project, performed 20 years ago by Bob Jewett and others, determined that dwell time between tip and CB was 1/1000th of a second (a quarter of the time it takes to blink your eye as a reflex). Jewett mentioned that a soft tip might possibly increase the dwell time to 2/1000th's...still insignificant. No type of shaft or stroke can significantly affect this. It's still all about how a particular shaft or tip "feels" to the individual.
Scott Lee
http://poolknowledge.com
If it is now all about the "feel" to a specific individual, then there is no need to change anything except your "feel".
That is what happens when you play with "one" cue/shaft/tip over a long period of time. You adjust to the equipment...the equipment does NOT adjust to you.
Once you acquire a "feel" you like, you find a cue that fits "YOU" and "YOUR" style of play. It doesn't matter what it looks like, how much it costs, who made it, or what it is made of.
To me, feel = TRUST!
If you play with any piece of equipment (cue/shaft/tip) long enough you will learn its playing characteristics and learn to trust it to do what you have "previously done with it through your learning time with it".
If you can run multiple racks fairly consistently, then you are pretty much in TUNE with that cue and have learned to trust it to do what you want. If you have ran three racks in a row and then miss a ball, it ISN'T the cue. It is YOU, unless the cue somehow malfunctioned, such as a miscue. Even if it miscues, it could be your stroke, the tip needing scuffed a bit, the chalk wasn't sufficient, or something of the sort. The length of the cue, the weight, the dimensions, and the materials didn't change between shots...so was it YOU or the cue?
If it works for YOU, then that is the cue/shaft/tip for YOU. Of course you can play with other cues/shafts/tips, but they won't have your "feel" until you play with them long enough for them to become your NEW "feel".
According to scientists, sometimes "placebos" work. If your cue is your "placebo" and it works...then you don't need another medicine to cure your problem. If you keep trying different "medicines" to cure what is already "working", then maybe the problem is YOU and not the medicine.
If people "think" they can feel the tip on the cue longer and the ball reacts the way they thought and they can "control" it, then they don't need a real pill...the placebo may be working just fine.