It is established fact that the top women CAN beat the top men. If you were there at the Riviera in 2010, you'll recall that Yu Ram Cha, a fine player but one of slightly lesser skill than Xiaoting Pan, beat Shane Van Boening in the pro 10-ball event. If memory serves, the score was 11-8.
That said, I think that far more than the break stands between the top men and the top women. Perhaps having Charlie Bryant break for her would place Xiaoting Pan on a par with very fine players like Jeremy Sossei or Mike Davis, but I still reckon she'd remain a longshot to beat the superstars of men's pool. In fact, I don't even think that having Charlie Bryant break for her and being spotted all the breaks would be enough to place her on a par with the likes of Van Boening, Souquet, Alex, Busty, Hohmann, or Immonen in a race to 25.
These observations are far more a tribute to the very best men players than an indictment of Pan's exceptional game and skills.