Your main cue i mean, not your spare cues
I have to say i don't like anyone else using my cue, however competent they may be.
Not any more. I have a Varney conversion that I bought to replace my knock around bar cue. Its a decent cue worthy of looking after. I also use it for league play. I was in the bar one Sat night, went out for a smoke and when I came back in, my wife had given it to our daughters boy friend.
I sat there and watched him bang it into the metal corner of a Valley bar box and plunk it down hard in a rest. I took it away from him and told him to bring his own cue in if he wanted to play.
Never again.
As far as my "main player" I would not let anyone use it.
I have 4-cues that have substantial dings from letting people borrow or try them out.
It is unbelievable how some people treat cues or don't know how to treat a cue.
I get asked all the time and I just say no.
Sometimes I feel bad about it, but when you get dinged up cues back from people 4-times, the refinish costs start adding up.
The question is what do you do when you get a brand new cue back
with 10-dings, just because you forgot what an idiot the guy you loaned it to is.
I felt like it was my fault for not considering who I was loaning it to.
Then there are people that you didn't realize were idiots until you loaned them a cue.