First off, hello there. Long time reader first time poster.
I have "lurked" here for many years, and used to post on a couple other boards in the past, but have long since forgot my log-ins and passwords.
This might be a bit long winded so go get a drink or hit back page and move on to another thread or just skip to the bottom for the 1.5, so here goes.
I need help. I'm stuck. Been here before and I remember it isn't any fun. I just cant seem to get my game to the next level that I know I can play at, no matter how many hours I put in, practice, read or study, just cant seem to reach it. Let me explain.
I used to play 8-12 hours a day back in '99-2001. Tables 4 or 5 was my home away from home back then at my local pool hall. I would come home from work, shower, have a few choice words with my now ex-wife and head out the door.
I usually played with a friend that was a level or so above me in his game (he managed to make enough from me to buy himself a Schon @5-20 dollars a set). I had free table time as I ran a rather large tournament every there every Sunday so I made the most of it. Looking back I guess I was content with my game then. I still couldn't beat the good players, you know, the guys that where born with a stoke. The guys that just cant seem to miss and when they do its rare form. Convinced myself that I couldn't beat those guys and that I never would and accepted it as that.
Life continues, took about 4 years off, only playing when I went out to the bars, had people over etc.
Well I've since gotten remarried and my new wife encouraged me to get back into playing early last year. Man I totally forgot how much I loved this sport, I also totally forgot how to play.
Fast forward to present day and I'm back to where I was roughly 6 years ago, a decent player that just cant seem to beat the "great" guys. My wife has improved, and I see her improving more and more each week, yet I am in this slump I guess and cant reach the next level.
To let you get a idea as best as possible over the Internet of my ability I am a solid BCA 8, been high 9 many times, but usually stay in the 8 range, and in the APA league we just finished was a 6 (don't want to get started on APA's ranking system).
It was hard work getting back to where I am now because the only person I get to play regularly outside of league is my wife, and we all know that paying someone below your skill level does not help your game in the least. But we play league 3 nights a week as well as playing here at home (we have a Brunswick GC as well as a Valley Cougar bar box).
I don't know what to do outside of playing more people more often, but as I stated, I've done so in the past and it did little to no good in me improving.
I've read everything I could get my hands on, and while it got me re familiar with things I had once known and since forgotten, didn't help.
Instructional videos seem to do more harm then good, as I am convinced everyone has their own mechanics, and someone else telling you how best to hold the stick, stroke etc. is great....if you just started playing and don't already have a stance, stroke etc. embedded.
Not sure what I want here, maybe to vent and see of there is others like me out there, or maybe someone has a magic potion that will get me out of my current state and playing how I know I can... I'll pay top dollar!
At anyrate, what can I do or have you guys done in the past to "get there"? Open to all suggestions and ideas at this point.
1.5~ I'm stuck in my game and need help to the next "level". QQ.
I have "lurked" here for many years, and used to post on a couple other boards in the past, but have long since forgot my log-ins and passwords.
This might be a bit long winded so go get a drink or hit back page and move on to another thread or just skip to the bottom for the 1.5, so here goes.
I need help. I'm stuck. Been here before and I remember it isn't any fun. I just cant seem to get my game to the next level that I know I can play at, no matter how many hours I put in, practice, read or study, just cant seem to reach it. Let me explain.
I used to play 8-12 hours a day back in '99-2001. Tables 4 or 5 was my home away from home back then at my local pool hall. I would come home from work, shower, have a few choice words with my now ex-wife and head out the door.
I usually played with a friend that was a level or so above me in his game (he managed to make enough from me to buy himself a Schon @5-20 dollars a set). I had free table time as I ran a rather large tournament every there every Sunday so I made the most of it. Looking back I guess I was content with my game then. I still couldn't beat the good players, you know, the guys that where born with a stoke. The guys that just cant seem to miss and when they do its rare form. Convinced myself that I couldn't beat those guys and that I never would and accepted it as that.
Life continues, took about 4 years off, only playing when I went out to the bars, had people over etc.
Well I've since gotten remarried and my new wife encouraged me to get back into playing early last year. Man I totally forgot how much I loved this sport, I also totally forgot how to play.
Fast forward to present day and I'm back to where I was roughly 6 years ago, a decent player that just cant seem to beat the "great" guys. My wife has improved, and I see her improving more and more each week, yet I am in this slump I guess and cant reach the next level.
To let you get a idea as best as possible over the Internet of my ability I am a solid BCA 8, been high 9 many times, but usually stay in the 8 range, and in the APA league we just finished was a 6 (don't want to get started on APA's ranking system).
It was hard work getting back to where I am now because the only person I get to play regularly outside of league is my wife, and we all know that paying someone below your skill level does not help your game in the least. But we play league 3 nights a week as well as playing here at home (we have a Brunswick GC as well as a Valley Cougar bar box).
I don't know what to do outside of playing more people more often, but as I stated, I've done so in the past and it did little to no good in me improving.
I've read everything I could get my hands on, and while it got me re familiar with things I had once known and since forgotten, didn't help.
Instructional videos seem to do more harm then good, as I am convinced everyone has their own mechanics, and someone else telling you how best to hold the stick, stroke etc. is great....if you just started playing and don't already have a stance, stroke etc. embedded.
Not sure what I want here, maybe to vent and see of there is others like me out there, or maybe someone has a magic potion that will get me out of my current state and playing how I know I can... I'll pay top dollar!
At anyrate, what can I do or have you guys done in the past to "get there"? Open to all suggestions and ideas at this point.
1.5~ I'm stuck in my game and need help to the next "level". QQ.