CreeDo said:Sorry, I don't want to derail the thread, but this is something I've always wondered about.
I get that it's considered rude, I'm just puzzled as to why.
People ask all the time "what do you do for a living?" ... that isn't considered rude. That is practically the exact same question as "how do you make your money" (I think most people assume you make your money from your job)
If you're saying a person in the pool world might have made his money some other (illegal way)... I guess asking him the innocent question might put the guy on the spot and make him feel embarassed, but we're all pool players here and I don't think anyone would be embarrassed to say "I made a ton of money from pool action". In fact it's something they might say with pride.
Really I don't put "where'd you make your money?" any higher on the offend-o-meter than "where'd you buy those shoes?" I'm just applying the golden rule and asking myself honestly "if someone asked me this question, would I feel offended?"
I might say to a pool room owner, "I know this room cost a pretty penny, and those Diamond Pro tables don't come cheap !" , but I WOULD NEVER say, "Where'd ya' get the cash for this place Billy ?".