My four kids have grown up with the table in the house and here's the progression I used.
1) At age 18 months to 2 years I held them on my hip, they held the cue and I made the bridge. Absolutely a blast this way.
2) Once they want to do it themselves, we set balls in the pockets and they did hand pool, rolling the cueball to make balls- they loved it.
3) Taught them the open bridge and had them focus on just hitting the cueball into the pocket- we kept track of how many shots it took them and reminded them to always hit the center of the cueball.
4) Added the balls set in the pockets to 3
5) Taught the closed bridge, and played "golf"- 6 balls in the jaws of the pockets and kept score of the number of shots
6) They started playing me alternating shot and hitting in any ball they wanted- no game rules, just hitting
7) Introduce 8 and 9 ball and just teach them the basics of shot making
8) Have fun watching them prorgess
But, most importantly, teach them to respect the equipment and require the same of their friends-
a) never set anything on the table, particularly their butt or a drink
b) always wash hands before playing any games on the table
c) and the cardinal rule- Never, ever, play with Daddy's cue!
Enjoy the time shared with your kids at the table!
