Golf is not a good analogy in the instance you guys are talking about. Like you said, golf does not have someone standing over the players on every shot. When a match has a ref, it is up to the ref to call the game. Some will feel that he should have called it anyway, but few of us have ever played in a match with a ref. The times a ref is called into our matches to call a hit, what he says goes.
I have been in a game when my opponent was at the table and I called in a ref to watch a hit. It was obviously bad but the person watching the hit called it good. My oppenent ran out, and the said I cant believe he called that good. I didnt think ANY less of him as thats how it goes, the ref missed it.
I find it interesting that people like to get on Earl for that shot because it was on tape. If anyone watches much straight pool you will see many of the past champions commit fouls that the ref doesnt call, and NONE of them call it on themselves. Im talking about double hits, and am not bringing up names because it really doesnt matter.
Anyone that knows me knows if I foul, or even think there is a high chance that I commited a foul, I will call it on myself. I would like to think that I would do the same in the case being discussed but intil I make my living playing pool and playing in matches that have refs I wouldnt be able to answer positively.
When your in a match and someone is called in to watch the hit, if you think its bad and the person calls it good do you go ahead and call the foul on yourself? This question is not posed to anyone inparticluar. Just a general question for everyone to consider.
Woody
Well, I didn't start this to bash on Earl, it could have been any player in his position. I realize this happens to be a thread about Earl, I was just reminded of the incident in someone else post and thought it was fitting to mention. (This post isn't directed at Woody, I just didn't know where to quote from)

My thoughts have always been that the referee is there to make announcements, rack balls, call fouls that the player may not have noticed, and to be used in discretionary situations where it could turn out to be an argument between players . This was none of those. Everyone in range saw it (well, except Scotty obviously). This wasn't a close call, or a questionable shot. It was just an accident.
I know everyone isn't honest, and everyone has different views of honor. It is just my personal thought of what an honorable player would do. Yes, I have called fouls on myself if my opponent did not see. It's just the way I play.
Some may feel that gives them an edge over me apparently, and that's fine. I don't make a living playing pool, and I'm not too proud to admit that against a lot of players I'll probably lose. I would rather be proud of the way I played than feel like I had to cheat to win, which is essentially all that is.
And again, at a higher level of play, in a public arena, I expect more from a champion. Could have been any shooter, in this case it was just Earl. If I was watching a live pro golf event and saw Tiger kick his ball out of a bad lie because no one was looking, I would lose some respect for him too.
In any game, there are great players. Some of the great players are loved and well respected. Other great players are despised and/or don't get respect from others. This is merely one example of why. You can be great and acknowledged, or you can be great and acknowledged, and earn admiration and respect. Personally, I'd rather be respected as well.