What is your skill level? Remember that if a teammate is giving you advice they are trying to help you. Also remember that at the end of the day it is your choice what shot you play. You are not obligated to play the shot they suggest.
I will say that as a captain I have had frustration with some players. For example, I have a SL3 on my team. He is playing 9ball and has 7,8,9 remaining and has BIH. He gets down to shoot and lines up a shot that will not give him position to get out. I call timeout and he is annoyed because I interrupted him. I tell him that using the timeout on BIH was the perfect time to use it. I explained the shot he should take and he chose to go with his original play. He failed to get out and lost the match. Afterwards he says I sharked him out of the shot and that is why he lost. WTF
If that's your name, he must of thought it was your game: TheNewSharkster...