I'm 62 (almost).
I don't get the big thrill out of winning, kicking butt and taking names, that I did when I was younger, it just doesn't mean that much any more and hasn't for several years.
Loss of desire? I guess maybe you could call it that but it feel more like learning that life has more to offer and the things that seemed iimportant when I was "a kid" just don't have the meaning they used to.....the glitter wears off
That doesn't make the trappings of old age better in any way than those of more youthful days, or vice-versa...it's just the process of aging. The passing of a few years has mellow me out and from what I observe of others this is a common trait of having passed through a few phases, having been around a few blocks and through a few dark alleys.
I think Blackjack said it pretty well. It's inner peace that satisfy's....as opposed to fame and fortune. Life at both ends can be good. Youth is like the chocolate shell and when that has been devoured by the passing of a few days we reach the inner candy which is even sweeter!! When I was younger I couldn't see, feel, taste or touch in any way that sweeter candy. You have to finish the outer shell before you can see that inner goodie. You have to. That's just the way life is set up. The trick is to decide to be happy regardless of which phase you are passing through. That phase will be over pretty quickly and if you didn't enjoy it you missed it. It's gone. It's over. It won't be back. You blew your chance. Try it again today. Play some Zen pool enjoying the excellence of the game.
One of these days it will be a passing on to the phase which is invisible to us now. But even that is just another phase. Life really IS eternal.
I don't get the big thrill out of winning, kicking butt and taking names, that I did when I was younger, it just doesn't mean that much any more and hasn't for several years.
Loss of desire? I guess maybe you could call it that but it feel more like learning that life has more to offer and the things that seemed iimportant when I was "a kid" just don't have the meaning they used to.....the glitter wears off

That doesn't make the trappings of old age better in any way than those of more youthful days, or vice-versa...it's just the process of aging. The passing of a few years has mellow me out and from what I observe of others this is a common trait of having passed through a few phases, having been around a few blocks and through a few dark alleys.
I think Blackjack said it pretty well. It's inner peace that satisfy's....as opposed to fame and fortune. Life at both ends can be good. Youth is like the chocolate shell and when that has been devoured by the passing of a few days we reach the inner candy which is even sweeter!! When I was younger I couldn't see, feel, taste or touch in any way that sweeter candy. You have to finish the outer shell before you can see that inner goodie. You have to. That's just the way life is set up. The trick is to decide to be happy regardless of which phase you are passing through. That phase will be over pretty quickly and if you didn't enjoy it you missed it. It's gone. It's over. It won't be back. You blew your chance. Try it again today. Play some Zen pool enjoying the excellence of the game.
One of these days it will be a passing on to the phase which is invisible to us now. But even that is just another phase. Life really IS eternal.
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